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friends with benefits?
well..
i have known my best friend since 7th grade ((we're in college now))&& we are very close..and last thursday..we got even closer..well we were at his apartment and we were watching a movie..and out of no where he stopped the movie..and we were already cuddling..and yes..durin the movie..i did feel him get.."happy"..but anyways..he kissed me..and we started makin out..one thing led to another and we endin up having sex..now everytime i see him we end up makin out and doing it..i talked about being in a serious relationship and he seemed hesitant but he said he wants to think about it..and i told him that i am not going to be his little whore and everything..and he was like..i would never think of you like that..i like you a lot..but i don't want our friendship to be weird..but i told him that it already was weird after we had sex..so what should i do..i really want to be his girlfriend..but i am so confused about everything..i need sum good advice..and i rate 5's for good advice <3
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Don't keep having sex with him. It may seem to you that it draws you two closer..But if he really did like you alot, he'd want to be with you. Sex is his way of getting you hooked on him. It seems to me that he likes you, but wants to be free to do whatever with other girls too.
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I would suggest not having sex with him until he gives you a straight answer. No having said that, you never know if he wants a arealtionship or not, you can neve tell what guys are thinking, they frustrate girls like that. Just see where it goes, but no sex, sex seems to blind guys,a lot. Good luck
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only take this seriously if you think it's truly a good idea
when you see him
make out with him
get him as excited as you want
and then
stop.
tell him that you're sorry to get his hopes up, but you thought it was a sick pleasure of his since he got yours up.
that's just me being a little vindictive for you
if you don't want to do that, i would try talking to him again, in a few days, so it gives him time to think.
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It's pretty obvious that he doesn't want a serious relationship. He gave you a really bad excuse about a serious relationship "ruining your relationship". If I were you, I wouldn't have sex with him anymore. If he's only committed to being friends with benefits, then he isn't worth it.
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dont have a serious relationship. if you've already had sex more than once and he still needs to think about it, then he wont be serious in your relationship.
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Ok well I have a friend just like you. Im telling you now even though its hard just stop because you have to get him to prove its not all about sex. Hes probably using you because if he really cared for you dont you think he would of asked you out so you could be the only one he could have sex with? I mean its hard to say now that your used to it but try and tell him why your stopping. Well I hope I helped you
~Bianca~
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Well he seems to like you....but if he wanted you as his girlfriend he'd say yes in a heartbeat.But if he doesnt ask you and your not going to date and your having sex uhh...then he's using you as his little whore.Before he "does" you again you should talk to him and ask to be the same old friends.Or you can ask to be his girlfriend again. If he's still hesitant leave and ask him to think about it and talk to him the next day. Hope it works out for the best!
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Hey i kinda went throught something like this but not really i geuss i was sorta using the guy but anyway i think that you should just sit down and talk to him and tell him that first of all you dont want to fuck up your freindship and second of all he hasta choose if he wants to be with you or be a man whore and that it dosent really effect you ethier way its jsut that your not going to be his booty call and a qucik call when he needs ass and then thast it and if he contunies to use you as a booty call after you tell him that then tell him that then stop getting wtih him
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Hi.
This guy seems confused. He seems like he doesnt know what he wants. You or to date other women. So what you need to do is talk to him about the situation.
-Green Day Rocks
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Poor baby. He's using you, i can tell. A relationship isn't all about sex, if he loves you he wouldn't say "a serious relationship is weird." You said yoursef "everytime we see each other we end up having sex" thats not a relationship. Hope all goes well.
-J
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