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What do I do?!?!?!?!
Okay, I have a problem with this guy...you see I have this neighbor and I have just realized over this past summer that I am deeply in love with him. The only problem is that my best was in love with him too. So school came around and suddenly one day my friend Erika (the one who likes my neighbor Chris) comes up to me and says that Chris just asked her to be his girlfriend, but that he wants my premission before they become a couple.
So I talked to Chris and gave my premission because I knew it was the right thing to do and in the meanwhile I was completely and utterly devestated. I couldn't believe that this was happening. Chris and I had been the best of friends for a whole year and we were really close. I had always thought that just one day he would like me back. (He already knew that I liked him because my friend accidently let it slip awhile ago and he was really nice about it. And Erika and I had once asked him who he liked more and he said it was a tie)
Well now it's been about two months and it's getting even worse. Erika has started bragging about it. Saying things like "Oh my God I'm so glad that Chris choose me out of us!" in front of my face. And she's been making up stuff too like "Chris said he wants to spend the rest of his life with me!" and when I confronted Chris about it he said that wasn't true. I mean we are only 14. And then when the three of us hang out she hogs him and I can't even have a decent conversation with him.
It's so weird though because half the time Chris acts like he likes me and then other times it's like I got a deasese. I just don't know what to do anymore! Erika is driving me insane and I cry all the time these days and my emotions are all haywire. And I have no clue if Chris likes me or not. So if you have any answers or comfort or anything that would be great.
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first off .. you should not let a guy get between ya'lls friendship. and it is a horrible idea for two of ya'll to like the same guy.
but talk to her. tell her that you do not like her talking about/bragging him infront of you. and you feel like when its the three of ya'll she hogs him, and you cant get a convo. with him.
then you could go talk to him.
tell him that this is hard for you, and that your friend is being rude about this all. and you still have feelings for him, and maybe ask him if you and him could have some one on one hanging out time.
i think that might help a little.
but you two girls have to know that you cant let guys get between yourfriend ship. chicks before dicks.
because when this whole relationship thing is over, you still want to have eachother left.
good luck ♥
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no1left2understand@yahoo.com e-mail this e-mail address they are an advise colom person and she gives awsome advise she will help alot but here is what i think you should tak to the girl and say i don't know why you are being like this to me your my friend and always will be. its a gay don't lose a friendship over a guy . he is yours and i know that . but in your head i know you still want him
and thats ok thats expected you just have to tell yourslef its ok time will fix this problem cus he aviasly likes you to just wait . it will work out
hope i helped,
Andie
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well if i were you i would talk to chris i mean if you guys are close he would understand tell him what your going throgh ask him if he ever liekd you before and then you can ask you if he still likes you now and also ask him about your friend too if he likes her or if hes just going out with her too go out with her also tell him how you feel when you hang out with them and waht she says to you i hope helped im out like shout kisses and prayers~ paOla
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