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8 best friends.. 1 boyfriend..
Ahhh I'm a female..My age I rather not share.. but my 8 best friends are all a bit older and not to mention all guys.. weeelllll. I've kind of made out with them all, then some other stuff (but I wasn't really sober, so it doesn't count?).. anyway.. I've never really considered a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship with any of them.. and they never showed interest either.. I recently started going out with someone else (none of my 8 friends), and they all seem to be mad at me for it.. its as if my entire world turned its back on me.. and I hate it.are they jealous, or maybe looking out for me, or something else? I don't know why they're mad.. Is there a way I can make them not be mad anymore without dumping my current boyfriend?
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I won't say getting drunk and kissing all your friends wasn't a bad idea. That's your fault, so do face up to the fact you're gonna encounter problems. However, these guys have no right to be jealous. Tell them so. You're only friends. And if they can't accept that, find friends who will. Appologise for any part you had in inhibited make-out sessions, but don't let them take advantage of you.
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they are mad because now that you have a boyfriend they know you can't mess around with them anymore and they probably don't want you to get hurt eiter.you should let them know that nothing will come between you and your friends.
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Yeah.. I think they might be jealous because not they don't have a friend with benefits becuz* I guess they figured your not gonna* mess around with them anymore and they feel sadd* because NOW they have to find someone else. Don't dump your current boyfriend that would let them win exspecially if you actually like your boyfriend. Just set them straight and be like What the hells your problem I didn't do shit to you guys so don't acting like I did and for one if you were my true friends you would be happy for me that I found someone that I actually like and enjoy being around. And if you can't support that and ease up a bit then I don't think we should be friends. Say that in your own words but yeah. Hope I helped..
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I'm going to be straight with you here. What business is it of there's to say anything untoward about your relationship with your boyfriend? Where do they get off here?
Tell them next time you see them that you have been very supportive of their relationships and expect the same here or mind your P's and Q's about the subject. They are the ones being rude to you both, childish etc. Why even care? If you and your boyfriend are having a good time that is all that counts. Their opinions should mean diddly squat when it comes to your love life.
If they are angry so what? It's their issue not yours. Go about having fun and it will all settle itself out. Maybe it is showing you that you are more mature and need to move on.
Absolutely zero explanation about your relationship or dating outside your circle of 8 need be given. Go about your business and if they cannot handle it become friends with someone else. Friends are a dime a dozen. Loving boyfriend's who treat you like a princess are not.
Lots of 'em are toads not worthy of a kiss. Take what you have here and run with it and if anyone says something why would you gives a shit when it's their problem not yours? True friends will simply not pull that junk on you. Perhaps this is how to tell you grew up and they haven't.
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OK, if you havn't had too many boyfriends in the past then maybe they feel that your boyfriend is intruding. They're probably used to being the only guys in your world right? Before you started dating this guy they probably didn't have an interest like that or it never crossed their minds, but now they're seeing a whole new side of you and they could be jealous. However, i don't think they're jealous because they like you in more than a friendship way, i believe that they are just not used to you having any other guys in your life besides them. Give it some time and hopefully things will work out. Hope i helped!
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