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how do i git rid of this
14/f
me and my boyfriend have been goin out for a month and a few days and when im around him i cant speak. he makes me so happy and im always smilin and he even said i dont tell him things. i want to tell him things but we only talk on AIM and when we r at skool we might see each other maybe 4 times for like a few minutes. i love him with all my heart and he means the world to me. before we were goin out i could tell him anything but now i lose all my words and when he says somethin i just laugh or somethin. how can i talk to him like i do everyone else?pleae help
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i had this exact same problem! i would just make myself forget that he was my boyfriend and treat/talk to him like a friend. the only problem with our relationship was that he had the same problem too. good luck with your relationship! hope it works out for the best!
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ok.. you need to gain your confidence back.. it may be hard but you have got to learn to trust in him like you did before you two developed a relationship... try to talk more in school and call each other on the phone... being able to open up to your boyfriend is one of the most important factors in a relationship. You also need to hang out more OUT side of school..if he truly makes you happy and you want to stay with him.. this is very important! Seeing more of each other is the biggest step in a relationship.. thats what helps you develope a connection...but in order to develop a connection you must be able to confide in him...you have to get rid of those butterflies in side of your stomach if you really want things to work out...
***Kayla...
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Ahh you have the new relationshipp butterflies. You have to trust him and have to tell him things becuase communication is the key to all relationships. I know it is hard, but mayb you could hang out more, or call each other on the phone, becuase when you talk on the computer it's a little different then hearing that person talk. Try and let your guard down a little let him get to know you better. I hope everything works out.
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Your lost in love. You need to step up to your boundaries, meaning don't push him away but you need to back off, don't be so obsessive trust me most guys don't like that one bit. I think you need to chill out and when find the easiest way to tell him things meaning if you can talk to him better on the fone* or AIM or in person then talk to him and tell him things. Obviously he's interested of he wants to know. You seem really sweet but trust me it's not love.. not yet, you may be one step close to love like you lust him because honestly the way your acting is *exactly* the way i acted when I was going out with my last boyfriend and it did turn into love we went out for a year and one month and I did grow out of that stage and start to tell him things that I haven't and couldn't have told anyone else. I hope I helped. Good luck!
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Maybe you can meet him at Mc. Donalds or another place where you can eat at, or the movie theaters. Then sit with alone and tell him everything that you want to tell him. OR just pretend that you to are friends if that's the only way to feel comfortable with him and tell him everything :) you have to stop laughing at everything he says because maybe that makes him feel like your relationship is a joke. OOPS BACK ON TRACK (LOL)!! I think you should change the name BOYFRIEND to something like SNUGGLE BUDDY (so cute) and try talking to him. Thinking of him as a boyfriend is another step when you are able to talk to him. If you are confused about what I am saying, drop on into my inbox!!!!!!!
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