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Ok so last year this guy and I got really close I mean really close everyone thought that we were dating. This year however he barely notices me and he only acknowledges me when I say something dumb or make him notice me. He was the best friend I ever had and I think he is making a mistake by dating this girl because he dated her best friend and ended the relationship on bad terms. I have all this stuff I want to tell him but I havent talked to him in so long I am afraid if I start talking to him out of the blue about his relationship with this girl or anything then he'll hate me. We only talk online or in emails and we live in the same town!! I hate it. What should I do?
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just take him off to the side and say "i know we haven't talked in a while...i know i have no right to judge what you do or say or act. but i think you dating the best friend of your ex-girlfriend is a really bad idea. again i know i have no right bringing this up to you but i don't want to see you or someone else get hurt
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If you want to be his friend, then you should probably ask him what happened and start suggesting to continue the friendship. Tell him through e-mail that you miss the strong bond you both had last year.
About his love life, let him do what he wants with that. I know you want to tell him a lot about who hes dating and the consequences, but a lot could end up happening with you and these girls possibly. You just never know with what he might say if you begin to tell him things. Right now, you should just start beginning the friendship you had and going from there.
-TheTeenGirl
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Have a party and invite him, tell hin that you are tired of only talking to him on the net and ask him does he want to talk on the phone, if he does, give him your number so you can talk to him in person. ask him does he want go go to the movies AS FRIENDS to get on good terms and for him to trust you. He could actually like the girl that he's dating, just because you don't like the relationship, doesn't mean you have a right to talk about how the relationship is stupid or a big mistake. Let him find it out on his own and you can be there to comfort him and make him feel better. He will think of you in a different way BELIEVE ME!!!!! I HAVE TRIED THIS AND NOW I HAVE THE BESTEST FRIEND IN THE WHOLE WIDEEEEE WORLDDDDD I hope I helped you
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