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here comes the jealousy...
okay i have to begin from the start but bare with me. me and my boyfriend have been dating for 9 months now. last year tho, we went to an event and got in to a fight(lemme say over nothing) and he like hooked up with his ex-girfriend not like sex but still. ever since then i havent been able to get over it. i mean i forgave him and have tried to let it go but it hasnt really helped. sometimes i will be sitting alone and i start to think about it and it makes me want to cry. this event is coming up again in a couple months and his ex will deff be there and omg im soo scared of what is going to happen. i told him that if hes good this time i will be happy and finally over it for good but if he does it again its OVER for sure. is this a good way to go about it or what should i do to get over my jealousy? do i have a right to be upset about it or am i over exaggerating? HELP!!!! rate high.
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ok, i can DEFINITELY see where you get your jealousy from, and in MY opinion, you have every right to be jealous. But something about your plan seems to make me feel that it won't work. You should DEFINITELY tell him that you really like him, and that it will hurt you real bad if he does what he did again. Tell him that it never quite settled with you, and that you need to know that he is devoted to you.
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OH MY GOSH. You have every right to be upset and just a little curious about what he is planning on doing when the next event comes up.
If I were you I would defenitley be suspicious.
But yeah thats a good compramise. If he does it agian its over. And if hes good. It's out of your head and out of the relationship. And you guys are going to move on
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okay, yeah i had the same problem w/ my ex i know exacltyy how you feel. Your always going to be jealouss so many girlss are.. But if he is good this time and and he hasnt done anything else w/ anyone then you should trust him. You dont want to push him away. It was probally a stupid mistake, people make them were not perfect. So think about that okay?
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No, you have a right to be upset, at the end of the day, a fight over noting shouldnt result with him hooking up with his ex, no way.
If he really is in love with you then he wouldn't have even thort about going to her, why should he, he has you. I don't think that you are over exagerating, in the slightest. If it helps, tell him how you are feeling, it might just make him think about how much you mean to him, but if he does it again, then he isin't worth the air that he is breathing
Dannii xx
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