Question Posted Thursday November 24 2005, 5:13 am
ok im 13 8th grade and this guy asked me to go with him.
i really dont know how to say no to guys.
I AM EXTREMLY NOT ATRACTED TO HIM.
and i dont want to go with him.
hes going to kiss me.
PLEASE HELP.
i rate 5s.
_wishes answered Friday November 25 2005, 3:44 pm: He doesnt have to kiss you. Looks arnt everything im sure you can have fun with him just let your hair down and have fun with him and your friends. Also you wont be hanging out with him al night you will be hanging with your ffriends. Dont worry you will have a great night dont worry about looks just worry bout personalty and youll have a laugh! [ _wishes's advice column | Ask _wishes A Question ]
tasuki answered Thursday November 24 2005, 11:50 pm: PUNCH HIM IN THE FACE!!!
Gosh, he's a jerk.
It would be perfectly legit, too. You feel threatened by him.
kevin1986 answered Thursday November 24 2005, 11:27 pm: Whats wrong with him? Does he suck dicks? Does he support Saddam Huessin's caauses? Does he like USC Football? If the answers are all no, then go with him. And just give it a try. You're 13. This isn't your soulmate. [ kevin1986's advice column | Ask kevin1986 A Question ]
Daria006 answered Thursday November 24 2005, 9:27 pm: Ok. Calm down. Well you just gotta find a way to to tell him hes not your type. Or say like.... Your goin through a tough situation right now and cant handle a boyfriend on top of everything. Good Luck!
devilspawn_666 answered Thursday November 24 2005, 4:44 pm: You just have to tell him that you're not interested in going to the dance with him, and that you think he'd have a better time with someone else. Don't, for any reason, lie and say you have other plans that night if you don't. Because it'll only lead to hurting his feelings even more. Just be upfront and tell him that you don't want to go to the dance with him. [ devilspawn_666's advice column | Ask devilspawn_666 A Question ]
CutUpAngel013 answered Thursday November 24 2005, 3:34 pm: ok... hopefully you didnt already say yes... but if you did just let him go in a nice wayy...go easy on him.. tell him the truth .. that your not really attracted to him and your sorry for leading him on. If he still doesnt get it .. just swallow your pride and say no... [ CutUpAngel013's advice column | Ask CutUpAngel013 A Question ]
Sister-Help answered Thursday November 24 2005, 1:50 pm: Just Simply Let Him Know You Have A Date, Or Maybe That You Might Not Like To Go. The Best Thing To Do Thought Is Say Your Not My Type Sorry Good Luck With That xxx [ Sister-Help's advice column | Ask Sister-Help A Question ]
megan03leigh answered Thursday November 24 2005, 1:48 pm: okay 1st you have to learn to sayy no.
Just tell him you don't like him like that and you would be better off as friends, and if he wants to hang out that's okay but just as friends. Justt be honestt.. Hope everything workss out..i/m me if you need more help.. i3lueyeddx3
Ashlee_ox answered Thursday November 24 2005, 12:45 pm: tell him you already have a date and if you dont want to do that tell him the truth!
hope i helped
SoInToYoUx0x answered Thursday November 24 2005, 12:31 pm: you need to tell him the truth dont let him keep goin wit ur realtionship taht you want no part in. the faster you tell him the less hurt he will be.
*~Stephanie~* [ SoInToYoUx0x's advice column | Ask SoInToYoUx0x A Question ]
xOViLLYxO answered Thursday November 24 2005, 12:11 pm: Just say you dont like him as a boyfriend and you would rather be friends with him and if he trys to kiss you pull back ♥ [ xOViLLYxO's advice column | Ask xOViLLYxO A Question ]
malibubarbiie111 answered Thursday November 24 2005, 11:30 am: be straight forward with him.* just be like look, i`m not trying to be mean or anything. but i`m just not attracted to you in that way.* && if you still want to go with him as friends. tell him that.*-- ♥x0x [ malibubarbiie111's advice column | Ask malibubarbiie111 A Question ]
naimee answered Thursday November 24 2005, 11:29 am: Maybe you could just go with him as a friend? But, tell him that just be like, "I'm willing to go with you, but I promised someone else that I'd be their date, so I'm just going to go with you as a friend." Or, if you have someone else on your mind then just tell him that you can't because someone else asked you first. [ naimee's advice column | Ask naimee A Question ]
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