ok soo i`m 14/f and i have just feel soo shity about everything me and my mom got into a pretty big fight today and it was really heart breaking because we were getting along soooo great. and now things feel like everythings falling apart i broke up with the guy i liked a lot because he never had time for me because of fucking hockey and he really hurt me when i broke up with him. we`re not even friends. its soo heart breaking and i try to talk to him but either he gives me dirty looks for ignors me or makes fun of my text messages. i keep telling myself hes not worth it but it hurts soo god damn much! the only person that has stuck by myside my hole life almost is my best friend Nes. she understands me and i love that. and she knows how much mike might to me. and it just sucks i trying to flirt with other guys but they are starting to get annoying, i think i need a vacation. really or like go to the spa!! i got no sleep lastnight because i couldn`t stop thinking about him. i`m just slowly getting over him. and i really need to!! for ym health i have lost 15 pounds because of the break up. i need help fast!!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? advice_expert101 answered Wednesday November 8 2006, 4:03 pm: Okay first, you REALLY need to get over him. risking your health is NOT going to help you. Firstly, start hanging out with your friends more and dont talk about him much. Take all that sadness and turn it into determination. try to meet new guys (that arn't anyoying). serouisly, you need to start doing sports or something to keep you bussy and keep your mind on something else instead of him. if you need any more help try going to www.seventeen.com (or get a magazine) and check if they have anything about break ups and stuff (they ussaully do). also if you go to the website, go to the top and there should be a thing that says ask jenna or someone like that. stay strong =)
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xostarbrightbaby answered Tuesday November 7 2006, 9:36 pm: First, try apologizing to your mom..it will defintely help you feel better. Second, that guy truely isn`t worth it and immature if he can`t talk to you anymore and gives you the cold sholder. Don`t try to think that because you broke up with that guy, finding a guy right away will help because sometimes you need to take a break from relationships until you`re ready again. Take things slow, I know it`s going to hurt but you have your best friend who seems like a good friend. Meanwhile, hang out with your friends and do things that make you relaxed and have fun. Try suggesting to your mom to go to a spa one day or something like that. Hope this helps. ♥ [ xostarbrightbaby's advice column | Ask xostarbrightbaby A Question ]
Mameme answered Tuesday November 7 2006, 1:58 pm: ok love *hugs*, don't worry to much about the fight with your mom she is your mom and will always love you :), just go say your sorry and most likely she will feel sorry for fighting too.And if your xbf didn't have time for you then thats his own fault for loseing you, if he really wanted to be with you he would have made some more time and there is no excuise for that, i know hoe you feel though i just broke up with me bf i have been going out with for 3 years,I know its hard but you just have to find the strackth to move on, you will find some one elts don't worry.Don't bother talking to you xbf you just have to let him go, if you want more advice about your brake up or just some one to talk to you can always email me at Kiten94@aol.com or aim me at Kiten94
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noname answered Tuesday November 7 2006, 10:23 am: wow, Well remember that your mom loves you, and is doing the best she can for you, and she probley Doesn't realize what you are going through, Guys are gay, haha, i know that you like him alot, but you just need to take a deep breath, and ignore him, hes a fucking idiot for not liking you and making fun of you, if he sees that your having fun wiht your friends, and not mourning over him, he will stop being an ass. so just have fun with your friends, try and find something that relazes you, today when you get home, go into your room, and rip his picture up and all his things, and tell yourself that your completely over him. hopefully i helped. [ noname's advice column | Ask noname A Question ]
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