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My parents and I moved here from Russia. It was hard for us at first. My dad worked and my mom was in school, training to be a nurse for 7 YEARS(she couldn't speak english).
Now she has a job. She's a nurse and gets paid WELL. We're living pretty good. But I barely see my parents, and that is a problem.
Ever since my mom began working, she became OBSESSED with it. She's cancelled so many plans with me and broke so many promises because she would much rather work.
I'm only 14 years old/female, and I never really had a great relationship with my parents. They've always been TOO BUSY. I missed out on so much as a kid. and I am turning 15 next month. and I feel as though my mom would rather make extra money than spend AT LEAST one day with me.
I am bulimic and I have bad mood swings and I am so so so sad, and I am losing many of my friends. I want to be able to at least talk to my mom of all people. It's just so hard. :[
what should I do or say?
I need somebody, especially a mom.
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All you should do is tell you mom how your feeling, i am sure she will understand.I had the same problem with my dad he was never around and i started to miss him (when i was little).I told him how i felt and we stet a side a time only for us every saturday morning we would go out for breakfast.I didn't see him much of the week after that but it didn't matter eny more beacuse we had out speacail saturday, i hope i was of some help to you.
-Good luck :)
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ello all. i am going to be getting married next month, hopefully. i am muslim and we are going to have the marriage at the Masjid. i was wondering if the person that must give me away can be my mum? i wasn't sure if it had to be a male or not. thank you for your help. take care (link)
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hmmm.....well I'm not completely positive love, but i don't think it says eny were that it has to be male that gives you away and i am sure that is exseptional for you mum to give you away.Hope i was a little help to you, good luck with you marrige and congrts :)!
-Good luck
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My friend who's bisexual has always liked me more then a friend. Well now i feel the same for her, we have decided to try it out and see how it works. Can anybody who's gone through this help tell me what it's gonna be like being with a girl for the first time? (link)
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being with a girl is different in alot was almost the same as being with a boy, when you are a bf you care about him and you have fun with him.This should be the same if you care about her and have fun being with her and know that she feels the same way about you then you don't have to worry about all the other stuff, the most important thing is that you bolth care about eachother, or mabey even really love eachother, i hope things work out hun!
-Good luck :)
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ok soo i`m 14/f and i have just feel soo shity about everything me and my mom got into a pretty big fight today and it was really heart breaking because we were getting along soooo great. and now things feel like everythings falling apart i broke up with the guy i liked a lot because he never had time for me because of fucking hockey and he really hurt me when i broke up with him. we`re not even friends. its soo heart breaking and i try to talk to him but either he gives me dirty looks for ignors me or makes fun of my text messages. i keep telling myself hes not worth it but it hurts soo god damn much! the only person that has stuck by myside my hole life almost is my best friend Nes. she understands me and i love that. and she knows how much mike might to me. and it just sucks i trying to flirt with other guys but they are starting to get annoying, i think i need a vacation. really or like go to the spa!! i got no sleep lastnight because i couldn`t stop thinking about him. i`m just slowly getting over him. and i really need to!! for ym health i have lost 15 pounds because of the break up. i need help fast!! (link)
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ok love *hugs*, don't worry to much about the fight with your mom she is your mom and will always love you :), just go say your sorry and most likely she will feel sorry for fighting too.And if your xbf didn't have time for you then thats his own fault for loseing you, if he really wanted to be with you he would have made some more time and there is no excuise for that, i know hoe you feel though i just broke up with me bf i have been going out with for 3 years,I know its hard but you just have to find the strackth to move on, you will find some one elts don't worry.Don't bother talking to you xbf you just have to let him go, if you want more advice about your brake up or just some one to talk to you can always email me at Kiten94@aol.com or aim me at Kiten94
-Good luck :)
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ok so im a 15/f and my friend told my friend john that a girl that goes to your school likes him.. and its me and he asked her if it was me? and she told him she doesn't know. and my friend was like he know s because you make it obvious i was like o my god lol and she's like ya you blush around him alot so ya should i just telll him or what should i do? (link)
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Umm.....well...ummm, i couldn't really understand that sorry hun i have no idea what you wrote lol :), try writeing that agin but slower mabey it will make more sence, hope what ever your problem is goes ok.
-Good luck :)
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ok so last night...things were fine...better than fine, AMAZING! we were normal like usual...having fun, cuddling, kissin you know the whole bf gf thing. well the problem was i thought my mom wanted us to break up because of certain reasons so i told him today but i was crying and said how i didn't want it to happen. well he didn't wait for me outside my class afterwords but at the end of the day he came to my last period class and we talked some things out and he said that worst comes to worst we can just be really good friends. i'm sitting here crying my eyes out outside the door but he's just standing there with a little smile wiping my tears away. but i'm trying my best to make things work but he just kinda seems to be going with the flow, not having any real emotions [[or at least that i can see]]. does he truly want to end it and should i quit fighting? or is he just being a guy about this?? =(
we're both 17 if that helps lol [[and if this situation sounds so elementary i'm sorry...he's my first serious relationship and i'm terrified to lose him]] (link)
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Ok, if you really love him don't let eny one tell you that can't see him eny more.If you let people to tell you that you can;t love some one eny more, then who knowes that person might be ruining you futchure (or saveing it no one knows).But if you love him you can't give up on him now and you have to fight for him.He is problet just holding back his emotions, alot of guys do that, they don't think its ok to cry when things go wrong like some girls (and some guys).Sence i don't know him i can't tell you exactly thats what he is doing but as a guess thats what i would say.I hope every think works out for you hun *hugs*
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okayyy. well this is getting pretty complicatedd. I'm 15/f freshman. so theres these 3 guys. im not sure which one i like or which one i actually should like because theres a flaw with each one.
1- freshman- he is new to our school but in two months he is moving back to texas and we live in pennsylvania. we both like eachother but for those two months he is getting home schooled. i have no idea why but that means that i will never see him and if i do it wont be alot and only for a month or so but he is the cutest kid ever and i really like him. he is so nice and cute and aahhhh. but hes moving.
2- sophmore- me and him had a thing in the summer which ended as nothing more then many hook ups. he claims that he likes me a lot and all this crap but i dont know if i want to believe that or if he just wants to hook up again. i like him also but im worried that is all he wants. i like being around him becuase we always have fun and i can be myself around him most of the time. and we kid around is that cute little flirty way and i love it.
3- senoir- we're crazy about eachother but he's 18 and we've already talked and we realized that we probably couldn't go out. i would want to be with him more then anyone of them but thats the problem. he's in a band and he's perfect. nice, amazingly funny, sings to me, always makes me laugh, calls me all the time just to talk, and knows just about everything about me.
--when ever the sophmore calls me the senoir gets really jealous but i think its cute but they really hate when i talk to either of them. the freshman doesn't mind much. we aren't as close as the other two though.
i dont know what to do.
i want to be with #3 more then
anything but its like sorta illegal
right? what am i supposed to do? (link)
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Every one has a flaw ususally more then one (i know i do).Don't focus on there flaws focus on there good quality!
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Riiight...
I'm 14. My girlfriend is 16. We both love each other very much.
Recently, after a night of passion (basically lots of making out and holding one another), she offered to take me to third base. I am simply not sure I'm ready for this, for a couple reasons...
The major one is it's simply incredibly daunting. I've never made it that far with any girl, and this is the kind of thing I've heard about in health class. I feel a little young and unprepared... I just get rather nervous when I consider it.
The other is simply the original idea I had when I first heard of it. I remember back years ago, when I first heard of the whole idea, I remember thinking "Wow, that sounds really disgusting for her. I would never make ANY girl do that for me". She says it doesn't bother me, but I don't know...
What you have to understand is that it's not her, it's me. I love and trust her indefinitely, it's issues I just have with myself. I think I also feel a little insecure about my body... I'm also afraid, however, that if I continuously pass something like this up, I'll just never be ready no matter how old I get.
Please don't answer this from a religious standpoint, and don't just say "talk to her" because I'm already doing that. She'd like an answer by Saturday.
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If you don't feel like you are ready for that then you just have to tell her,I am sure she will understand if you want to wait a wile longer.If she doesn't understand how you feel then well......i don't think she would a vary good gf if she did that.You know her alot better then i do (lol i don't know her or you =])so you would probebly know weather or not she would mind if you waited so just take a minit to think about that.
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Hey, i know this is kind of weird but... one day i was at my gf's house and she wanted to give me a handjob but i was to nervous because i thought my penis was to small. What would the normal size be for someone my age? right now mines 5 1/2 inches.
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lol :), your penis is a normal size don't worry, i am sure you gf wll think so too.If your still nurves then just don't do eny thing like that for a wile let it grow and let your relationship grow too and then mabey some day soon you won't mind.I am sure you gf won't mind it if you don't wanna do that kinda stuff yet
-Good luck :)
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I have been dating a guy for almost 6 months now and as october 25 2006 I had known him a year. I have dated many guys but none I have felt the way I feel about him! He is amazing and i cant seem to get enough of him. Our relationship is pretty much everything I wanted in a rrelationship, could he be the one? (link)
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he could me mr right, i don't really know you have decide on that.Ralationahips and confussing and love is vary hard to understand amotiom.
If you feel like you want to be with him for the rest his life then you should tell him that, mabey you are ment for each other but as i said before its hard for me to say when i don't really know eather of you.Don't worry about it so much if you two are ment to be together it will happin :)
-Good luck :)
I think thats a vary good sigh, it sounds like he really really does love you with all of his heart.If he feels thats way about you he is probebly mr.right but agin its your distion don't worry when the time to decide comes you will know:)
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im 13 and i weigh 142 pounds. i know i am overweight and i have a big schedule but i need to lose weight! can anyone please give me some quick excercises i can do because i want to lose 4 pounds in one month. also any foods would be good too. (link)
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here are some tips hun, hope you like them:)
1)THe foods you eat are more important then how much you work out!Don't eat eny thing that is not FAT FREE!Like fruits and vegtibles don't eat junk food!Giveing up junk food might be hard but it might be the one of the bast things you can do when you are dieting!
2)Mike and water can help you lose weight, thee not like deiting pills but they can help, so instead of drinking soda witch is a vary bad thing to drink when you are trying lose weight (It almost maks it so that you can't lose weight)Drink a glass of milk and water:)
3)Loseing weight will not be easy, it will be harder then you can even imagin, don't forget that.
4)Never eat enything after 7-oclock, if you wack up at night with craving just go back to bed, every thing you eat at night goes strait to you legs and your butt thats called binging!
5)Working out is important to, you won't lose eny thing if you only work out for 20 minits day, you need to do at least an hour!I run on my tredmeal for at the least an HOUR EVER DAY, or sometimes more.If you don't have a tredmeal you can always go runing out side it mght be cold but you wanna look good dont you?
6)ALWAYS make sure you work out for A HOUR OR MORE, and never never never eat enythin that is not FAT FREE!
7)Keep reminders around like for example my desk top back ground right now is a pitchure of myself (that i drew lol)but i am vary skinny in a bikini, every time i get hungry or a craving for something like ice cream witch is vary bad i just look at my back ground and i think that if i ever wanna look like that then i have to agnor my craveings.You keep a pic or a skinny girl in you frige that works well to or eny were you think you might see here.
8)Don't give up, always stay comfident every day when you wake up look at your self in the miror and say i am pritty and i am going to lose weight today!I know that sonds stupid but it wuill help.
woo i don't think i have ever writen so much lol, well keep thoughs things in mind, oyu can do it!If you have eny more question you can email me at Kiten94@aol.com or aim me at Kiten94
-Good luck :)
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okay so, i just got back from vacation almost 3 week tomorrow. So when i got back i weighed myself. 125.5. During my presence back at home i've been eating less just a fruit for breakfast but then i've eaten alot of lunch and dinner. a little bit less then normal. Last night i weighed myself i weighed 119.5, i've lost about 6 pounds in 3 weeks, non-diet. is that normal? also there are little bumps around my armpits area like pimples sort. please tell me whats happening. i've also been having diahhrea. (link)
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well i don't really know to much about bumps or diearea but you loseing that m much weight is totaly normal good for you:)
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ohkay well i really want a tredmill because i no it will work because its the same thing as running outside.. but the thing is my mom wont get me one because there so much money.. what is the cheapest tredmill you can get. also i go on ebay. what are some good tredmills on there? but i really need to no thanks =) (link)
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ok hun then jsu run out side it might be cold but it you wanna look skinny and nice then you will do it, here are some other tips for lose weight that might help you alot.
1)THe foods you eat are more important then how much you work out!Don't eat eny thing that is not FAT FREE!Like fruits and vegtibles don't eat junk food!Giveing up junk food might be hard but it might be the one of the bast things you can do when you are dieting!
2)Mike and water can help you lose weight, thee not like deiting pills but they can help, so instead of drinking soda witch is a vary bad thing to drink when you are trying lose weight (It almost maks it so that you can't lose weight)Drink a glass of milk and water:)
3)Loseing weight will not be easy, it will be harder then you can even imagin, don't forget that.
4)Never eat enything after 7-oclock, if you wack up at night with craving just go back to bed, every thing you eat at night goes strait to you legs and your butt thats called binging!
5)Working out is important to, you won't lose eny thing if you only work out for 20 minits day, you need to do at least an hour!I run on my tredmeal for at the least an HOUR EVER DAY, or sometimes more.If you don't have a tredmeal you can always go runing out side it mght be cold but you wanna look good dont you?
6)ALWAYS make sure you work out for A HOUR OR MORE, and never never never eat enythin that is not FAT FREE!
7)Keep reminders around like for example my desk top back ground right now is a pitchure of myself (that i drew lol)but i am vary skinny in a bikini, every time i get hungry or a craving for something like ice cream witch is vary bad i just look at my back ground and i think that if i ever wanna look like that then i have to agnor my craveings.You keep a pic or a skinny girl in you frige that works well to or eny were you think you might see here.
8)Don't give up, always stay comfident every day when you wake up look at your self in the miror and say i am pritty and i am going to lose weight today!I know that sonds stupid but it wuill help.
woo i don't think i have ever writen so much lol, well keep thoughs things in mind, oyu can do it!If you have eny more question you can email me at Kiten94@aol.com or aim me at Kiten94
-Good luck :)
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hi i apologize for the length and also i would like not to have any replies saying loose some weight freak which i have experienced on here before any way on with the question
i am a 14 year old boy from the UK i have an uppsettingly high weight of 18 stones or 252 pound's i know thats terrible but no matter what diets i try i cant loose any weight i even did a diet for heart operation patients where i had to eat loads of soup and now i cant even see a onion without feeling nauseous if anyone else has any good tips i would love to hear them i cant bearly go out of the house so if you could help i would appreciate it (link)
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answered Tuesday November 7 2006, 12:42 pm:
Ello, i am 13/f and i am 130 pounds to also i am 5foot3.So we have alot in comand i know alot about dieting i have been doing it for a long time and i have lost alot here are some tips.
1)THe foods you eat are more important then how much you work out!Don't eat eny thing that is not FAT FREE!Like fruits and vegtibles don't eat junk food!Giveing up junk food might be hard but it might be the one of the bast things you can do when you are dieting!
2)Mike and water can help you lose weight, thee not like deiting pills but they can help, so instead of drinking soda witch is a vary bad thing to drink when you are trying lose weight (It almost maks it so that you can't lose weight)Drink a glass of milk and water:)
3)Loseing weight will not be easy, it will be harder then you can even imagin, don't forget that.
4)Never eat enything after 7-oclock, if you wack up at night with craving just go back to bed, every thing you eat at night goes strait to you legs and your butt thats called binging!
5)Working out is important to, you won't lose eny thing if you only work out for 20 minits day, you need to do at least an hour!I run on my tredmeal for at the least an HOUR EVER DAY, or sometimes more.If you don't have a tredmeal you can always go runing out side it mght be cold but you wanna look good dont you?
6)ALWAYS make sure you work out for A HOUR OR MORE, and never never never eat enythin that is not FAT FREE!
7)Keep reminders around like for example my desk top back ground right now is a pitchure of myself (that i drew lol)but i am vary skinny in a bikini, every time i get hungry or a craving for something like ice cream witch is vary bad i just look at my back ground and i think that if i ever wanna look like that then i have to agnor my craveings.You keep a pic or a skinny girl in you frige that works well to or eny were you think you might see here.
8)Don't give up, always stay comfident every day when you wake up look at your self in the miror and say i am pritty and i am going to lose weight today!I know that sonds stupid but it wuill help.
woo i don't think i have ever writen so much lol, well keep thoughs things in mind, oyu can do it!If you have eny more question you can email me at Kiten94@aol.com or aim me at Kiten94
-Good luck :)
ps- your not a freak you just need alittle help is all:)
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OK, well, I really want to start losing weight, again. Now, when I did it before, I tried pills, fad diets & aerobics. The only thing that really takes the weight off of me are the strength training exersizes. You know, like the machines they have at curves. Not just aerobics alone. So, my problem is... I really can't afford to join a gym right now. So, I was wondering if anyone had any ideas of what I could use at home to tone my muscles while I lose the weight? Thanks. (link)
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i had the same problem, i really wanted to et a tredmeal but i couldn't affod it.Thy is is what i did, i saved up all my money and i wbaby say and did other jobs for people in my nabor hood and my family, in the mean time wile i was sveing i would run out side, i know it might be cold but if you really want look nice and skinny then you will do it, i would even run through snow.After a wile you will save up anoff money and you will be able to buy it.Not haveing the right stuff to work out is no excuse i leared that the hard way you just have to do it any ways.Also eat right, the stuff you eat will help you lose weight alot fast then just working out (do bolth) only eat fat free things no junk food.FRuita ans vegs are good and soda is bad, drink milk and water that stuff will help you lose weight.If you have eny more question or you juat wanna talk then you can Email me at Kiten94@aol.com or aim me at Kiten94
-Good luck :)
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well i weigh 130lbs and im 5'4. im a 13/f, I know this is fat but i was wondering if you know anyways i can lose weight. thanksss a bunch i want to look nice for when i have my pool party at the end of the school year for grad. (link)
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Ello, i am 13/f and i am 130 pounds to also i am 5foot3.So we have alot in comand i know alot about dieting i have been doing it for a long time and i have lost alot here are some tips.
1)THe foods you eat are more important then how much you work out!Don't eat eny thing that is not FAT FREE!Like fruits and vegtibles don't eat junk food!Giveing up junk food might be hard but it might be the one of the bast things you can do when you are dieting!
2)Mike and water can help you lose weight, thee not like deiting pills but they can help, so instead of drinking soda witch is a vary bad thing to drink when you are trying lose weight (It almost maks it so that you can't lose weight)Drink a glass of milk and water:)
3)Loseing weight will not be easy, it will be harder then you can even imagin, don't forget that.
4)Never eat enything after 7-oclock, if you wack up at night with craving just go back to bed, every thing you eat at night goes strait to you legs and your butt thats called binging!
5)Working out is important to, you won't lose eny thing if you only work out for 20 minits day, you need to do at least an hour!I run on my tredmeal for at the least an HOUR EVER DAY, or sometimes more.If you don't have a tredmeal you can always go runing out side it mght be cold but you wanna look good dont you?
6)ALWAYS make sure you work out for A HOUR OR MORE, and never never never eat enythin that is not FAT FREE!
7)Keep reminders around like for example my desk top back ground right now is a pitchure of myself (that i drew lol)but i am vary skinny in a bikini, every time i get hungry or a craving for something like ice cream witch is vary bad i just look at my back ground and i think that if i ever wanna look like that then i have to agnor my craveings.You keep a pic or a skinny girl in you frige that works well to or eny were you think you might see here.
8)Don't give up, always stay comfident every day when you wake up look at your self in the miror and say i am pritty and i am going to lose weight today!I know that sonds stupid but it wuill help.
woo i don't think i have ever writen so much lol, well keep thoughs things in mind, oyu can do it!If you have eny more question you can email me at Kiten94@aol.com or aim me at Kiten94
-Good luck :)
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I'm 13/f, almost 14. I'm 5'10ish and 170 lbs.
My goal is to lose 20 pounds by December 31st 2006. My eating habits consist of 2 bowls of cereal for breakfast, usually a turkey sandwhich with 1 pint of chocolate milk & a fruit, and for dinner - i have about 2, 3 meals for dinner. I know I'm eating a lot, but I have four questions..
1) Is there any way for me to get my mind off of food so I won't crave it so much?
2) Excersize. How long should I run on the tredmill for/how many mph? I also play a lot of sports though. And also, if I'm not accesible to a tredmill one day what other exercise should I do?
3) What would you say is the rate I should be losing weight? (e.g. 2 pounds a week? 3 pounds a week? -- remember, I want to lose 20 lbs by December 31st 1992.
4) How many sit-ups and push-ups should I do every night? I would love to have a somewhat visible 2 pack by December 31st 1992
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ok ok ok!You need to change your eating habbits first of all.People that start to diet don't usually understand how hard it is and how much work it will take to burn off fat, so trust me if you want to be skinny you are really going to have to work for it :)!
1)Eat less, like for breakfast have some fruit mabey a apple and some milk, milk is good for you its not like a dieting pill but it does help you losee weight.All the food you eat needs to fat free or you will never lose eny thing, i have already been through this trust me i know what i am talking about.Don't eat eny thing untill lunh just keep you mind on somthing elts, start a new project that has to do with one of you hobis to keep you mind off it.For lunch FAT FREE, fruit, vegtible, salid with dressing on the side, FAT FREE cerial (1 bowl), or mebey a yogurt.
2) as for working out its not as important as eating FAT FREE stuff but it does help ALOT!You should run on the tredmeal for at the least a HOUR A DAY, if you ever end that hour and feel like you can keep going then DO!If you run for 20 to 30 minits a day you wont lose alot trust me it must like a hour, sence you not used to that (or mabey you are?)You could always start out slow like mabey 30 minits the first day 45 minits the naxt day and it you feel you can do a hour after that then go for it :).
3)If you eat only FAT FREE food and run on the tredmeal for a hour a day yuo should probley be able to lose a good 5 to 6 pounds at the end of the mounth.
Remember dieting is not easy, but you can dojust stay comfident and remember what i have told you about FAT FREE stuff snd 1 HOUR A DAY RUNING.If you have eny more questions, or just wanna talk you can email me at Kiten94@aol.com or aim me at Kiten94
-Good luck :)
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im quite skinny but im very pear shaped. what are some really good slimming/toning exercises for my hips/butt/legs especially thighs. no yoga or pilates please. and something simple i can do at home that doesnt take too long but shows good results. thanks. (link)
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i had the same problem, i wasn't really fat i was just shaped funny, like uneavenly or something.I started to run every day on my tredmeal for a hour (runing out side works too, it might be cold but you do want to look good dont you?).I also started to eat healther, you know like only fruits and all fat free foods.That worked my legs got all toned out and my hips shrunk in like 2 mounth i got ride of that pair shape :).Every one is different so it might take you longger os mabey shorter.Just make you sure you run or work out some other way EVER DAY FOR A HOUR OR MORE.And eat healther no junk food!
-Good luck :)
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does anyone know how to "lose weight" on your face? i really want my face to be sort of angular, so there's no baby fat/whatever fat on it. when i smile my cheeks go really wide and i wanna get rid of that. any ideas i'd appreciate it. thanks (link)
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if there is no fat on your body, then that mean its not fat on your face.Its probly just chubby cheaks, mabey still some baby fat.Don't worry your going to grow out of that soon, my sister had the same prob she had vary chubby cheaks for a long time.She just never lost the baby fat untill she was like 15 or 16 (i don't really remember some were arounf there)
-Good luck :)
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i'm 5'6" 126 lbs. big leg muscles, skinny upper body, NO boobs whatsoever. seventeen years old. my question is: how do you get boobs without getting fat? when i eat more, the fat rarely ever gets to my boobs first, it goes to my face or stomach or something. if i run, it gets rid of all the fat in the chest area as well as everywhere else, but i want to have a bigger chest! any tips? (link)
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Some people don't get boobs till they are alot older.Geting fat is not going to get them!Just let your self grow it will happin trust me, besides if guys don't like you becuse your flat then are ass holes, you should be liked for who you are not how ig your boobs are!Don't eat to make your boobs bigger, you get boobs that way but you'll find you were much happy with a flat chest then with a unhealthy and fat ugly body.Don't over eat jst so you can get brest (thast not healthy!).Every one gets then at different times i got mine when i was 12, my sister got her's when she was 17.It happins for every one.....i mean all girls :).Don't worry sooner or later they will grow
-Godd luck :)
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