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3 guys.
okayyy. well this is getting pretty complicatedd. I'm 15/f freshman. so theres these 3 guys. im not sure which one i like or which one i actually should like because theres a flaw with each one.
1- freshman- he is new to our school but in two months he is moving back to texas and we live in pennsylvania. we both like eachother but for those two months he is getting home schooled. i have no idea why but that means that i will never see him and if i do it wont be alot and only for a month or so but he is the cutest kid ever and i really like him. he is so nice and cute and aahhhh. but hes moving.
2- sophmore- me and him had a thing in the summer which ended as nothing more then many hook ups. he claims that he likes me a lot and all this crap but i dont know if i want to believe that or if he just wants to hook up again. i like him also but im worried that is all he wants. i like being around him becuase we always have fun and i can be myself around him most of the time. and we kid around is that cute little flirty way and i love it.
3- senoir- we're crazy about eachother but he's 18 and we've already talked and we realized that we probably couldn't go out. i would want to be with him more then anyone of them but thats the problem. he's in a band and he's perfect. nice, amazingly funny, sings to me, always makes me laugh, calls me all the time just to talk, and knows just about everything about me.
--when ever the sophmore calls me the senoir gets really jealous but i think its cute but they really hate when i talk to either of them. the freshman doesn't mind much. we aren't as close as the other two though.
i dont know what to do.
i want to be with #3 more then
anything but its like sorta illegal
right? what am i supposed to do?
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Senior. for many reasons obviously. and no it's not illegal unless you guys are having sex and someone presses charges (such as your parents).
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1- Unless you want to try and do the long distance thing, which usually doesn't work out between two people cause the commitment starts to get weaker and weaker as time goes by, and plus, there's the emotional needs, but what about the pyshical? You wouldn't even be able to like, hug him or anything. Nobody to comfort you when you're sad or anything.
2- He may just want to hook up with you, but give it a shot, if you want. Try hanging out with him and if all he wants to do is hook up and then gets agitated or something whenever you don't, then you'll know it's all just a hook-up thing, and that he doesn't like you alot like he says.
3- If you really like this guys and he's as perfect as you say he is, then go out with him! The only way it'd be illegal for you two to be together is if you two were to have sex. You're allowed to date, but then once you two have sex, it's illegal. That's why there's an age boundary for states. Like I don't know where you live, so you might want to research that, but here if you're 16, then it's fine to do whatever because that's the age of consent here.
Also, I can't really tell you who you should like. I can't be your thoughts and your feelings, I can only help guide you along. You gotta listen to yourself as corny as that sounds and just see who you like the most.
Also, even though they all have flaws, every guy's going to have some sort of flew about them, just like you have a flaw and every other girl has a flaw. You just gotta realize that you like them enough to not let those little flaws bother you.
I hope I helped.
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if i were you, id choose the sophomore, because with the freshman, you'll end up getting hurt. the senior, it is illegal, and there is too much of an age difference. the sophomore sound s like the best because being able to be yourself is pretty important
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