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does he like me???
this may be long but im desperate!
14/f
ok on october 25th me and my friend went to this hangout place and played games and stuff. now my friend is the type to go up to a guy and say hes hot then walk away. okay so shes had boyfriends but shes not a slut now im fat (but im working on it) and ive never had a boyrfriend. there were these to guys that we walked by and she went up to them and she was like do yall go to our school and i told her no they go to ***** (15 minutes from where i live) how do you
know and i said because i went to fifth grade with one of them (not the hot one) then we left. and i kept telling her how cute the other one was and so they both go to the school i was gonna go to if i hadnt moved and all my old bestfriends go to their school. so we were walking around and i was txting my cousin so i was like ya ok and she came back he the hot one was with her and im really shy so i was shocked and he asked me for my number and i got his then my friend and i were walking around some more and there was this one ride i REALLY wanted to go on but she was too scared so she went up to him and asked him if he would go on the ride (an enclosed, 2 person, upside down ride) and he said he didnt have any money left so she INSISTED on giving him the money so he said ya but in like 10 minutes his friend and him said they were gonna go outside to talk to somebody (and we were like ya right there not coming back) so twenty minutes later we went outside to see if they were there and they wernt so we came back and like five muntes later i saw them and he waved by to me and thats it so i fianlly convinced my friend to go on the ride with me and we were waiting in line and i was picking a ride and then i saw my friend turn around and i turned around and he was standing there (my heart dropped, i was so shocked) and so my friend was like you saved me and me and him got on the ride and then he left without saying bye but i started txting him that night and i was asking him questions like so whats your favorite band etc. and he was really short with his answers and he never asked me anything and i was like do u want me to stop asking you questions and he was like idc. then my friend took my phone while i was in the shower ( i told her to) and she called him! and she was like hey do you like her a little tiny bit? and he was like uhmmmmmmmm uhmmmmmmmm uhmmmmmmmmm ya i like her eyes, but i just need to get to know her before we date(:. then they hung up so i said good night then the next night (sunday) he called me from a different number and he was letting me know that hecan recieve and calls a texts but he cant call or txt people and i was like oh then he was like ya but you can call me tonight or tomorrow or both if you want. then that night i called him and we had a really good 30minute conversation, we have a lot in common. and he was like i have a question and i said what and he was like do you wear contacts? and i said no and he said you well you have really pretty eyes (there green.) and i was like aw thanks. (the nicest thing he has ever said to me. so i called him everyother day and he was really just to tired to talk and we have really awkward silences soin total we have only had like 3 good convos since then but one night we were talking and we talk for like 30 40 minutes and he was like hey what time are you going to sleep and i said midnight probably and he was like ok then ill call you at 11 so we can talk for an hour, and i was like ok but ur probably gonna forget and he was like know i wont i swear i double swear i promise. then he called me 12 cause he thought it was 11 and we didnt even talk a lot cause we were both really tired. so i ALWAYS CALL HIM like hes only called me TWICE and we never have anything to talk about except for on the weekends. and last weekend i was at his school cause my bestfriend was in a play and i went to go see it and the next day i called him and was like i was at your school last night and he was like why and i told himwhy and he was like ohh you should have called me i couldve seen it with you(: but yaa i mean i would LOVE to go to the movies with him or something im just so shy and fat... :/
what do you think??
should i stop calling him?
do you think he likes me?
ive gone 4 days without calling himn to see if he would call me and he didnt.
i need help dudes.
please??
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yes, i think what you sent me is a great idea (about calling him on wed)
good luck girl! and let me know how it goes xo
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doesnst sound like he likes u all the way but hes definitely interested. sumtimes taking the first step lik calling a guy when they dont call you is okay because it shows your putting in an effort and when he feels lik hes more interested he.ll put in more of an effort or hes just shy too. Dont be self -conscious because obviously this guy likes you for how you look because other wise he wouldnt of exchanged numbers with a stranger. People dont usually exchange numbers with ugly stranger.. so dont worry about being as you say fat. Next time I suggest bowling or an activity where you guys can really talk at the same time. The movies just seems lik an i know you already but lets just hang out and see a movie kind of thing. Another good one would be mini-golf.. so he can show you how to hit the ball..even if you do know how just act like you dont. And your friend sounds brave ..just ask her how she does it and try to gain some of her confidence and realize your just fine the way you are. If you need ANY more advice..on this or anything else.. im here for you. -peachykeen
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This boy, sounds like the boy my best friend just broke up with. It sounds like he likes you. He probably just has problems with his phone. So don't worry. Make him want you, by just calling him, and maybe when you are talking say, hey, my phone is being weird, and i can only take incoming calls, so can you call me tomorrow, or thursday, or just tell him to call you somehow. Because the part about calling is a little bit awkward. Maybe he is really shy. That is what t might seem like. Because he doesn't say much on the phone or whatever....A lot of the times when people like each other, it is really hard to make convo. Which to me in the beginning can be a good thing because it shows that the person is nervous around you, and they can't think because they like you so much. But it will sure get better in time. Don't worry! And the fact that he was happy about you meeting his mom, is showing that he likes you enough to show you off to his mom. So thumbs up for you! One thing you can do to get him to open up to you and talk more, is to be you and open a little up to him. And ask him question about his hobbies, and talk about it. It will get him more comfortable. But he likes you. I think that the problem is just being shy and not knowing each other well yet, but everything will get better soon! good luck.
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