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Is This Wrong ?
Well me and my " First Love " dated a year and 3 months , We broke up in June ... We've had MAJ0R fights over these past 5 months . Sometimes we're good , and sometimes it's real bad ... Well these past couple of weeks have been REALLY bad , but it's honestly [ not ] me! I understood that when we broke up we were gonna " talk " & do other things with people , I fount out crap like a couple weeks after we broke up .. ofcourse I was upset but I mean we were not dating so I could'nt really say anything about it ... Well as soon as he finds out stuff about me he JUMPS down my throwt , calls me a whore , and all kinds of stuff and says EVERY BAD THiNG in the book! He's done the same as I but yet ( im ) the bad person . He says he does'nt like me as a person and horrible stuff ... Well I ALWAYS try to make things right because we're each others first love and I believe we should atleast be friends , but its like he DOESNT care .. always ignores me , not even a simple hey or a smile in the hallway .. I never snap back but last night I LOST IT!! I went off on him and told him to get the FCK out my life , is that wrong ? I mean honestly he is such a jerk and he never talks to me anymore ... him being so called " in " my life is the same as him being " out " .... I think it's best if he's out .. atleast for right now .. help ?
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this is what i'm thnking about him getting mad at you and saying bad stuff about you; when he is doing the same thing. HE IS JEALOUS!!!lol....that boy still loves you. wether he likes it or not.So he is trying to figure out ways to make himself feel better for the things you did to other people other than him. Honestly, he would love to be the one you had or whatever. He only says all these things to make himself feel better and to try to convince himself that he can be along without loving you. But he is really nuts about you. I think he also igonores you in the halls because he can't take talking to you or anything like that because he is still strugling to erase you from his mind. So he is doing everything he can to do that. HE CARES!!!! don't worry, its human to say things like this. Its not wrong, because in my opinion, its good to be you. You expressed how you were feeling. It might have been harsh, but at least you got out how you were feeling. Leave that box of friendship for him. Like that open space. Because I thnk that maybe he is taking longer than you to get over your love. So you probably should just step away from him. Give him the same attitude he gives you. Like as if you were playing hard to get. And then maybe he will want you and realize that he does want you as a friend. I think that when he sees you not trying to get along with him, it will hurt him, making him want to come to you. Anyway, this is my thot about your situation. I hope I helped!lol...goodluck
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