i know most of the advice givers get over 10 boy stories a day & im sorry this is another one of those typical "he doesn't realize im alive" stories. well there is this boy at my church, he is nice to everyone in my youth group, girls and boys. most of the time he doesnt want to talk to me. im falling hard for him and i just want to know--if he is nice to everyboddy in church and a generally nice guy out of church why doesnt he talk to me? here's some side stuff 1)everytime i look up at him singing on stage he is always looking at me 2) i took his phone and put my number in it and he didnt delete it:) 3)he always talks to my friends. i hope you can help!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Work/School Relationships? kiran answered Saturday February 7 2009, 11:05 pm: Well you can't tell for sure if he likes you or not. He seems like a nice guy so why don't you talk to him? If he isn't talking to you then you should go and try talking to him. Then if he doesn't really seem interested to talk to you or something like that, then you'll know he isn't really interested. He probably won't be mean though, saying that you said he was nice to everyone. There is a chance he will talk to you, since he still has your number in his phone. Good luck! I hope everything goes well for you! [ kiran's advice column | Ask kiran A Question ]
Shoval answered Saturday February 7 2009, 5:01 pm: I think he likes you. He is probably nervous to talk to you, which only means that its up to YOU to make the first move. Talk to him, be causal and cool. Don't worry about it, just be yourself and I promise that things will be great! Trust yourself and be confident. [ Shoval's advice column | Ask Shoval A Question ]
es answered Saturday February 7 2009, 3:53 pm: Is it possible that he doesn't talk to you because he's nervous talking to someone he likes? =]]
I think that's what it is. If you always catch him looking at you then I'm pretty sure he likes you, here are some other ways you can figure it out.
1. After catching him looking at you, he quickly looks away.
2. When you look back, 5 mins later, he's still looking.
What you can try doing is asking your friends if he talks about you, or mentions you.
Seems like he likes you though!
Good luck! [ es's advice column | Ask es A Question ]
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