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Ok so my boyfriend and I have been going out for almost 2 months. It was great in the beginning like how it usually is for most people. Then you know, later its not as great but I didn't mind it after the first month. But now its kinda changing. Like we don't really talk anymore, he'll just stand by me or whatever. We don't see each other alot since we don't go to the same school. Then I'm just getting confused because he goes to another school and his friend, who are also my friend, would come up to me and say, "you better watch your guy, those girls are wow" or something like that. Then I'm thinking like, "does he still like me?" and I don't want to ask him because for one thing, I'm super shy, second, if he still says he does, it doesn't mean he is telling the truth. I'm not gullible, I don't believe half of what anyone says. Which sometimes isn't good, I know.
Now there is another side for me. Ok there is a guy at my school I think I'm starting to like, since I see him everyday its easier for me to look at him and just think these things. Hah, I wouldn't cheat on my boyfriend for anything in the world. I like him so much, its just me thinking he doesn't like me. But this guy is really nice and we talk sometimes but its short. But during the whole time I'm thinking of my boyfriend, I like him so much. What am I supposed do? Am I just thinking these things about this guy because I don't see my boyfriend often? Sorry this was long and thanks for any help!
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Go for the other guy. Especially if you dont believe your boyfriend or wont believe him. Itll make him distant and you guys are already distant so you dont need that. and at this age you dont need to be in a relationship where you cant be able to at least see the guy at school because you dont know what goes on at his school and what sleezy girls might be hitting on him you know. Sorry to be negative, but the positive is to go for the other guy, just take it slow. I wouldnt say break up with your boyfriend just yet but talk to the other guy and get to know him more and this isnt cheating, just casual talking. When you feel like you can hang out with him then id end it with your boyfriend because you dont know what will happen when you and the guy hangout. Ask me for any other advice.
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Hi,
It's hard to have a relationship with someone at your age when you don't attend the same school.
People are going to talk all the time and have something negative to say.
You have to first ignore it and then go and have a talk with you boyfriend.
Tell him what's on your mind and demand answers. You say you are not gullible so you should know if he's telling you the truth by the way he sounds and looks at you when you ask him the question. YOur gut is usually right.
You're kind of young, leave yourself open to new experiences. If you feel yourself liking the other guy, go for it. I hope I helped.
Good luck,
Ediemarie
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