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How long should I wait to call her?
To make a long story short, I met this girl and we talked for about a half hour on Thursday night. I invited her (casually) to come hang out with a bunch of our friends (pretty casual). We ended up leaving the group last night and talked for a good 2 hours, then I asked her out for next weekend. She gave me kind of a strange answer, saying she had plans but she'd like to work around them, so I would consider that a yes. I texted her after I took her home and she responded with a good message. That's the situation, so here's my question. I was thinking about calling her and inviting her out for dinner but I don't know when. I don't want to seem really desperate but I also dont want to leave her hanging for awhile. Should I call her on Monday and see? How long should I wait? I'm not trying to play a stupid game with her or anything, just wondering when you girls like to be called. Plus it'd be weird to call her this weekend yet if we wouldn't do anything until the week.
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good question. im a girl so hopefully i can help you out. give it a couple days.. if she texts you first.. then shes been thinking about you. if not, just wait a couple days and then start talking. if she sounds happy to talk to you, invite her to go out. if not, just keep talking, finish the conversation, and wait.
theres really no set time.. its hard for a guy to sound desperate. im hanging out with a guy now, and every night after we hang out he texts me and we talk.. then he makes new plans for us for the next day or the upcoming week. i really like that.. it shows me that hes interested in me and like to be around me.
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Just wait a few days, about 3 but not longer than that. You won't seem desparate and it won't be too long. Females love when you show that you are interested, but hate to be smothered. As long as she sees that you like her but still have your own things going on, she will be into you. Ease in and take your cues from her so you aren't coming on too strong. It sounds like she likes you, so you are doing something right.
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