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Ummm...ok. i hav been addicted to drugs for a while and i dont know what to do. i cant seem to quit ive tried forever and its eating up all of my money and im afriad to get help. i dont want my mom and dad to know and im just scared. ive thought of suicide but thats not a great option....what should i do!?

Well, probly the worst thing to do is hide it from your parents and to keep doing it. When your parents are in a good, calm mood confront them in a quiet room and tell them your problem. I assure you they will get mad but im sure they will find help for you. I hope my advice helps!
- Lauren

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im a 7th grade guy and i like a 8th grade gurl. i cant stop thinkin about her and i really love her. Shes so hott and really nice and she cares about all ppl. i dont wanna ask her out cuz i think she would be embarrased to go out with a guy younger than her. wut shud i do?

Well first you should go talk to her and get to know her better. Wait at least a few weeks. Pay her LOTS of complements. Talk to her about going out and see what she thinks about it. If she thinks its a bad idea just stay friends. (That doesnt mean you have to stop likeing her) If she says yeah she would want to then ask her out and i hope it works out! i hope my advice helped!
- Lauren

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I feel trapped inside myself. I have lots of friends, but i cant seem to have fun anymore. It seems like im dead. It seems like i cant get a guy to talk to me and theres a guy i really like alot. I just want him to like me too.

Okay...get yourself together. Get some friends together and go out and have fun! Do something crazy! (Nothing bad though) You need to have fun! This is YOUR life YOU make YOUR own decisions. Confront this guy. You have to take your chances! To your surprise he might like you too!

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i give up on life it sux. theres no point for me to live anymore. i just want to get out of this shit hole. life gives up on me 2. i hate it i want out. i want to kill myself.

PLEASE dont do that. Life is so precious. You only get one chance. With that ONE CHANCE make it the best you can. Things may not be going good with friends or your love life but you know it will pass. Just wait and everything will slowly seem to fall back into place. Just know that there is always a way you can get help. From friends, a counselor at school or a family member. Just dont give up on life, instead LIVE LIFE TO YOUR FULLEST!

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i relly like this guy. and i told him i like him and he freaked out. (in a bad way) and he said "im not his TYPE" and i have been crying non stop i dont know what to do im so depressed. is he telling me he thinks im ugly?

Okay. First thing you need to know is, SOME guys can be jerks. This will sound stupid but everyone has things about them that are beautiful. Dont be sad, maybe he isnt the "one" for you. I can guarantee you that you will meet a ton of guys and you will eventually meet the "perfect" one FOR YOU. Who cares if its not a "popular" guy. You want to feel comfortable around him and him feel the same way around you. Mostly, if he makes you FEEL beautiful then he is the PERFECT guy for YOU!

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There is this guy i like a lot. And i am afraid to tell him that i do like him cause i think he will be embarrased or dissapointed. i dont know what to do and it is driving me crazy!

You should never be afraid of what a guy will think of you. Because no matter what you are the way you are. If you like him so much you should tell him. Who knows, he may like you too!

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