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ok i'm 13 yrs old and a little bit emberessed to sayt this but here i go...my boy feind wants to finger me and i'm kinda scared and i just don't kno what to do..i mena i want to but i'm just askin muh self questions leik will it hurt wll i cry ..what should i do please help ..thnxx
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Well, I've never been fingered, I really don't know if it hurts or not, but if your cherry(hymen) hasn't been busted, you're gunna bleed. It's gunna be like when you lose your virginity, it hurts at first, but you feel better the more you do it. As for what to do, just let him do all the work. Kinda make sure he clips his fingernails too. You're gunna bleed, but you dont want Freddy Krueger fingering you.
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well see my advice is going to be straight forward i have (a bunch of) points.
1)i wouldnt advise doing it at all....it leads to other things. you might end up doing things your not ready for.
2)nothing good can come of doing this.
3)it shouldnt hurt. if it does he is not doing it right.
4)your 13. dont do it.
5)if it embarrasses you to say this then your not ready and well you just arnt ready. dont do it.
6)if your scared your not ready.
7)your not ready. dont do it.
8)if you do chose to do it. if it hurts tell him, if you dont like it. tel him.
9)if you dont want to dont.
10)if he tries to do it anyways... say no. he should respect that... if not... wow your in trouble.
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well this is a difficult one...its up to you really i dont know what to tell you! its really your choice if you want to allow him to do that or not! good luck with your decision! im sorry!
xoxoxox
md
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I, myself, have never gone through with anything like that before, so I'm not sure what the physical pressure will be. But it depends, how close are you and your boyfriend? I mean, your only 13? I know you don't want to hear this, but maybe when your at least 14 or 15, even if your not with the same guy. I know your asking for help, and it's a bit complicated to answer this. What do you feel like doing? Do you know/trust him well enough? If it's just peer pressure, everyone goes through with that. I'm going through it right now, and I'm 14. If you feel like it's the right thing to do, go ahead and try it. But if you don't feel it's right, even if your boyfriend has to leave you, don't do it. If that's the case, you'll be worried that your bf will leave you, right? Well, if he loves you that much, he will stay. But do what you feel is best. I'm glad that you asked and good luck, hun.
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well, it shouldn't hurt to much, the real thing i what hurts, & by doing this, it won't hurt as much, so its a good thing
don't worry about it cos it goes by slowly, it shouldn't hurt to much, just be sure that both of you are clean (wash your hands & everything else) so nither of you get any STDs
good luck & I hope I helped
-Cameron
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Well, just do it when your ready. If your not really sure just tell your boyfriend that. And if he really loves you he should understand and will wait. Hope I helped. ♥
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well hun if you really feel you are ready for it then tell him.. ive never been fingerd before so go easy.. and just kinda breath and maybe think of something that will make it feel better and not worse!
Hope i helped
<3maddie
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it will hurt a lil but the pain feels good cuase thats wat its suppose to feel like
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