is it shallow of me to want guys only for my butt.. i don't have much of a nice face or body for that matter but i do have 'a great butt'.. as i've been told.. so just tell me if im that shallow or not please
BlondBritBrit answered Tuesday May 2 2006, 12:14 am: if oyu got it, fluant it. lol. Show it off and be proud. Everyone has something they want guys to notice more than other things. For example, I love flaunting my boobs and sometimes my tummy. If thats shallow, then Im in the same boat as you, lol.
WovenLynx answered Monday May 1 2006, 11:37 pm: Shallow...yeah I guess in a way I could see that...but no. Most girls are concerned with hair, makeup nails...and so forth. No matter the age or what they say...it always feels good to walk into a room and know you have the attention. *Smiles* I dont think your shallow I think it's natural, and I'm sure one day a guy will come up to you and say everything but your butt is beauitful...if he does...keep him, becuase apparently he sees through to your inner beauty.
TheTeenGirl answered Monday May 1 2006, 11:18 pm: Your question is confusing me a little bit but I think I understand what you are asking.
I wouldn't say that you are shallow for wanting a guy who only wants you for a certain body part, that makes that guy shallow. As for you, if you know for sure that that guy only wants you for that body part then it's just getting yourself in a situation with a guy who won't be very good to you.
My advice to you would be to not take the first guy in line who wants you. Don't settle for a guy just because he likes you in other words. It takes a lot more qualities in guys other than the fact that he's into you. I would also suggest that you take some time for yourself to love yourself a little bit more. You were talking about how you don't have a nice face or body and that might be why you are just picking any guy that wants you. You kind of feel like you don't deserve an attractive guy who loves every part of you when you deserve all of that.
Your appearance on the outside isn't what defines you. It is your inner spirit and soul that will tell people whether you are beautiful or not.
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