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Does He Hate me?
Hi there im 14 female and i was asked to prom bye this really nice sweet guy..and well ohkay so he bought me a extremly cute crosage and spent like 43$ in pictures and bought me dinner and paid for everything..almost like he was trying to impress me...but we had a wonderful night except we had a few silent shy moments at the dance he told me he was gonna dance with this other girl and he did i was fine with it and then after that he said he had to dance with more and all these girls had boyfriends excep tht e first one..anywyas he ended up danceing with 2 out of 3 and he danced with me the whole time besides that we seemed so in touch although at times he seemed bored or wanting to stop but i never made him do anything..so idk what was wrong with me, he had atrack meet earlier that day so he could have been tired (sorry this is long) anyways theni kissed him after he drove me hom and walked me to my door..i t was really short and stuff it was just a peck..but i really like him and..before prom he used to talk to these two girls he wanted to dance with at prom all the time in math but never talked to me well hardly... i thought that the kiss meant something, i mean it takes two to kiss if he didnt want it he could have pulled away... but he just acted normal talking to the two girls with boyfriends like i wasnt there it really hurt and now im in to deep what do you think is wrong with me or him or yea ahah help please!!
thanks in advance
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First, to cut to the point, he doesn't hate you. The fact that he tried so hard to impress you prooves that. But you have to understand that guys don't always..."think" before they do things. He's good friends with those girls...so he danced with them...end of story...it doesn't mean anything. He asked you to prom, he bought you the crosage, he bought you the pictures and he bought you the dinner. Guys don't try that hard if they aren't interested.
Second, maybe you should try telling him how you feel...i knw that your relationship with him is new...and so you probably don't want to sound too demanding or step over any boundaries by brining up an awkward conversation...but it doesn't hurt.
third, nothing is wrong with you :-)!!! It's normal to feel the way you're feeling..we all get a little jealous now and then...my advice to you is to just get over it...he likes you...and him talking to some other girls doesn't change that. If you don't want to confront him about it...next time he does it, get involved with the conversation...make his friends your friends...take a stand and show them that he's yours and yours alone...good luck!!!!!
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