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Q: i smoke and it's not because of my friends! my friends dont know.im only 13 and im addicted!PLz HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

The best way is to try to quit cold turkey! Eat ice if you get a craving or eat food. You could buy those patches. and tell you friends they'll understand and help!!! Good luck!

Q: My boyfriend and I are going to a holloween party and we are dressing up as babie and ken. Does anyone have any good ideas to makes us look like that? Thanks so much!

Hey great idea! I have some good tips for you. Wear a lot of foundation your color and make you face look really smooth. Wear a lot of eyeshadow, blush and red lipstick. If your a blonde straiten but if your a burnet then curl or sraiten. I'll get back to you on the outfit!

Q: This might be kind of gross, but for the sake of my friend, please try to help...

I recently found out that one of my friends is purging or becoming bulimic. I'm pretty sure she is but i have no clue how she's doing it. I mean, i've heard different stories and i really want to talk to her about it, but i can't yet. My only question is, is there any kind of medicine/drug that she might be taking for her to do this??? I dont know much about this so i really need to know to help. I know that alot of people just say, "stick your finger down your throat", but i'm not sure if she's doing that. I know she's taken drugs before but i don't know if that can literally cause you to purge. She's had trouble with stuff before but i just recently found out about this. I need to know if what she's taking is causing this. If you have any idea or can tell me what the pills are, i'll appreciate it. I'm just really worried and kind of naive about all this. Please help!!!

Hey the best thing to do is to talk to her , trust me. Ask her whats going on don't be afraid if you are in the end she'll thank you and it will be worth it. good luck

Q: Okay this is pretty unlike me and I know I'm gonna sound retarded, but this weekend me and a few of my buddys are going to the mall and they're are always reeeeeaaallll fine girls there and even though I'm not a bad looking dude (shallow?) I always never have any courage to approach them, any suggestions? I would be mucho greatful =)

Hey there, I have a same problem but with guys But i'm learning that you may only have one chance with them So if you really see somone that you think is real fine or have a girlfriend that you really like you basicly only get one chance with them, or to get the courage to get there number and to get to know them so think of it as you only have one chance so dont lose somthing that you want or have because trust me you'll regret bad( hint, hint I still do and im only 13) so dont be afraid because you only got one chance. Good luck please rate and give feedback.

-the pinkprincess

Q: Is there surgery to remove stretch marks? If so, how much does it cost? Can you pay in installments? How many sessions does it take? Is it healthy, like does it have any side effects? Would you recommend it? I have a lot of stretch marks on my upper legs, butt, and and sides of my...ugh I cant describe it, sides of my pelvic area and such. I can't stand them (I'm 16/f) and when I'm older (say, 18, 19) I want to get them removed. See, I took bad care of my body around puberty etc. like 12,13, and got all these stretch marks. I want to get them gone because its embaressing now-a-days. I know theres the chance on gaining them back during pregnancy, but by then I'll be married and older, who am I impressing. Thanks for the advice!!

I dont think theres any surgery because it will just make more marks. Just try rubbing coco butter on it and vasaline and stuff. Hope I helped.

Q: Do you know a romantic way to ask someone out and to a dance?

~Aaron Leung

A romantic way is go up to her give her a rose say she looks lovely and then say " ever since I saw you I liked you and thought you were beautifill so would you mind being my girlfriend and allowing me to take you to the dance?" Hope I helped please rate high:)and im not beging.lol

Q: I have to write half a paper, write a summary of a play, and do a review sheet. If i start at 7:00 do you think I will be able to finish around 11?

Yes most definitly, if you have no distraction.Good luck:).

Q: Well my cousin and her boyfriend have been together for 7 months now and he likes me he asked me to go with him and his parents to holiday inn. he is cute but he is with my cousin and he is a nice person to talk to.

Even thought he may like you and you may like him its still probably not worth taking your cousins B-friend. Talk to her and tell her how you feel. Good luck and hope I helped:).

Q: There is this guy who asked me to be with him and i said yes at first he wasnt quiet at all but now he is just boring and quiet the only yime i hear him talk is when he tells me hi at school. I really wanna break it off with him but i dont know how to without hurting his feelings and now my cousins boyfriend likes me what should i do

Its always very hard to break up with someone ive had to do it like a million times already. The best way to do it is to ethier have a friend break up with him for you or say im sorry I just dont think its working out for me. Hope I helped.

Q: Is it bad for you to get horny too often?

no, its normal!:)

Q: ok what is the best kind of pet for a starting out couple who just moved in together and are planning on getting married? my fiance works days and i do too. we get home typically him at 5 me at 3. and we leave in the mornings at like 6. we both love all kinds of animals, and want to get a pet to share our lives with since we are not ready for kids yet. what kind of pet would be the best pet to get. we are not allergic to anything and if you are just going to say "cat" or "dog" please specify a breed and why so that we can be educated about it before we make our desicion. thank you so much and i promise to rate every answer i get!

I would have to say a cat. A cat would be perfect because there not to much to deal with, you can leave them for a while, and there lovable and cute. Hope I helped and good luck.

Q: What are some healthy snacks I could take in my lunch each day? I have yogurt and carrot sticks, apple slices down, but those don't fill me up.
Any ideas- i rate 5's if you give me good advice and not anything like "eat food."

bring some strawberries if you have some or any other type of fruit. Hope I helped:)

Q: im scared.
my parents are in a fight. THEY FIGHT ALL THE TIME. they cant go at least 3 months without having a huge fight. theyve fought for as long as i remember. i always cry when they fight cause they yell so much, and say such horrible things. but they ALWAYS get over it, and forget it ever happened. but my dad has such a bad temper. he doesnt abuse her or hit her, he just breaks things when hes mad. and today, someone punched him becus there was a party across the street, and some guy decided to be a wisecrack and park right in front of our garage. so my dad asked him to move it, and the guy punched him, and my dad punched back for self defense. and this really scared me. but im so sick of my parents fighting. i dont know what to do, or who to go to becus they ALL SAY THE SAME THING;; "itll be ok. theyll get over it." or "you should talk to them about it and how you feel." but NOTHING I DO OR SAY will help them. ive tried so many times. i really need help. i just feel like bursting out in tears. PLEASE. PLEASE. PLEASE HELP ME.

Im very sorry to hear this When I was younger my parents use to always fight and I hated it too. There really is no way to stop your parents from fighting because its really there choice and there problem. Maybe you can ask them when they fight to keep it to them selves and I know you said your dad has a temper but tell him to try. Dont hold in your anger and sadness you need let it out. Dont get hysterical though cry in your room write down how you feel in a letter. I hope I helped in a way. If you ever have any other ?'s or need advice please email me at loverpinkprincess@yahoo.com, Good luck

-the pinkprincess :)

Q: any1 know how to take of acrlyric nails easily?>????i mean their reealy stuck on there i cant pop them off it feels like my real nail is going to pull off

let your nails soak in hot soapy water for like 10 min. Hope I helped

Q: ok i have the cingular LG 400 and does anyone know how to get the pictures from your phone to the computer thanks WILL RATE 5S

You have to have a printer like Hp that has a scanner on it and you have to have a hook up cord that you can hook up to the printer and the computer to then somthing will pop up and find where it says scan pics from digital camera. Hope I helped!!!

Q: does anyone know any very funny movies for teens? thanks i rate.

Just like heavean I liked it Corps Bride and thats all I know for know hope I helped!

-The pinkprincess

Q: i have one of my best friends parties tonight.. and i have no idea what to wear!!! my mom is no help at all and i need help im desperate!! its a casual party and i was planning on wearing jeans .. however i have no idea about the top or the shoes .. its supposed to be about 53 degrees tonight and i dont feel like freezing but I DO want to look cute... also some make up adive would help too :\ .. i have brownish hair and blue eyes i wanna go for cute eyeshadow techniques but I dont know how.. PLEASE HELP!

What I would do is wear your blue jeans pick a cute black top and wear a tight pink sweater over it, it will look so cute. Then for your hair I would scrunch it. I would also pick some brown eyeshadow with a little pink but let me tell you how to apply it.

1. put some white on your eyelids and a line of white underneath your eyebrows.

2.put a light shade of pink on the white but only on your eyelid.

3.put some brown above your lids and mix it in with a make up brush or it will look just plain weird.

I hope I helped. Please give FB(feedback)

-The pinkprincess

Q: I have been in love with this guy i know for almost two years. He knows i love him but i'm not sure how he feels about me. while i am completely comfortable simply asking him how he feels, it is hard to get him on his own to talk to and i also don't want to put him on the spot or make him feel uncomfortable, which i'm sorta afraid i already do because i've never exactly hidden how i feel about him. Any ideas?

Write him a letter and tell him how you feel and to not put him on the spot tell him to tell you how he feels about you in a letter. good luck. Give fb(feedback)

- The pinkprincess

Q: ok, my best friend and i have known each other since we were 2. we're actually a lot more like sisters, because we know everything about each other. we're now sophomores in high school, and she has yet to make one friend of her own. every friend she has was because i was friends with them first, which isnt a problem, but she needs to seriously be able to make her own friends. we have EVERY class together, and she just tags along. i never get a break from her. i cant stand her attitude, and if i hadnt have known her my whole life i probably wouldnt choose to be friends with her. she judges everyone and is just plain mean. i honestly need to get away from her but i cant, and i cant talk to her because shell just go crying to MY friends and try to get them to be on her side. what the hecks and i supposed to do!?!?

This is soooooooo scary my friend is exactly like this she has a bad aditude shes so mean and she tags along and shes like my sister. and if I do try to tell her shell get all sad and mad I fixed it though. She probably wants you to be honest with her tell her you want a little break and if she gets mad dont feel bad because its her fault if she doesnt undestand. But remember dont close the door on her all the way becuase a 14-15 year friendship is way to valuable to lose so remeber to be kind. Give fb(feedback)

-The pinkprincess

Q: Ok, well my choir instructor told us that we needed to record ourselves singing. So I did. For a while, I thought I was a good singer (soprano, especially since I got myself in an advanced choir a lot of people have told me I have a good voice. So I recorded myself passionately singing The Witches Chorus from Verdi's "Macbeth" and the recording sounded terrible! Awful! I've never heard myself on a recording before and I don't feel very good. Does this mean I have been a terrible singer all along, or does everyone think their voice sounds bad on a recording?

Everyone thinks that they sound terrible on recording even me. and everyone says im good too so dont wotty about it.

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HI my name is Sara and I give good advice so dont be afraid to ask. My email address is loverpinkprincess@yahoo.com. you can ask me there to. I LOVE PINK! :)!!!!!!!!!!!!