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I have been in love with this guy i know for almost two years. He knows i love him but i'm not sure how he feels about me. while i am completely comfortable simply asking him how he feels, it is hard to get him on his own to talk to and i also don't want to put him on the spot or make him feel uncomfortable, which i'm sorta afraid i already do because i've never exactly hidden how i feel about him. Any ideas?
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I'm pretty sure if he's known of your feelings for that long and you've not receieved much of anything in return, it probably just means that he's not interested...
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I'm afraid that I have bad news for you. You say that he knows of your feelings for him, but you are unsure of his for you. If he returned your affection, you would know about it. Simple as that.
I know that sounds harsh,but I speak from experience. I also spent two years yearning after an unavailable man, endlessly searching the time we spent together for signs of a change of heart. Needless to say, such a change never occured, and the sad part is, in most cases it never will. The fact that this man can still be friends with you despite the discrepancy in your level of affection shows what a strong friendship you have:use that friendship and the capacity for affection it has developed in you as a springboard from which you can launch yourself into another and less one-sided romance. Good luck!
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Write him a letter and tell him how you feel and to not put him on the spot tell him to tell you how he feels about you in a letter. good luck. Give fb(feedback)
- The pinkprincess
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