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i cant stand my best friend
ok, my best friend and i have known each other since we were 2. we're actually a lot more like sisters, because we know everything about each other. we're now sophomores in high school, and she has yet to make one friend of her own. every friend she has was because i was friends with them first, which isnt a problem, but she needs to seriously be able to make her own friends. we have EVERY class together, and she just tags along. i never get a break from her. i cant stand her attitude, and if i hadnt have known her my whole life i probably wouldnt choose to be friends with her. she judges everyone and is just plain mean. i honestly need to get away from her but i cant, and i cant talk to her because shell just go crying to MY friends and try to get them to be on her side. what the hecks and i supposed to do!?!?
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tell her that she needs to stop being mean. if that problem continues keep confronting her about it. about her being kind of up your butt, tell her you need to take a break from her right now. if she gets mad just let her. she will have to make friends if you arent with her. if she keeps hanging around you see if you can get your schedule changed or ask to be moved to a different seat in class. hope your problems gets better.
~Maegan~
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sounds like you just need to tell her how it is, if she dosent like it and she runs to your friends crying theyll quite possibly understand what you were upset about. if not maybe you need to find some new friends all together.
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you should try talking to her maybe if you put it in a suttle way she wont be as hert.Your friends will understand why you did this if you just explain the matter to them.Your friend will be heert but soon will get over it and will understand why you did it as well just dont be harsh about it and youll do fine.justb tell her you need your own time space to your self sometimes good luck hoope all goes well
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ebby
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wow that happened to me with this totally stupid girl i was friends with from kindergarten to 6th grade wow am i glad i got over her! she is sooo annoying and self centered uhh i could make this list for days but anyways this is about you. ifshe is annoying you that much you need to have a sleep over with all your freinds and tak to them about it and howshe is annoying you and how your r gonna not be as great of friends with her anymore ad tell them what you are gonna say so when you do say it she cant turn them against you!
* ex and ohs *
xoxomadeline
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omg im in the same situation!
i cant stand her, and my friend nicole told me that i should say "we need sometime off of eachother kay?" and i did that and she went to all of her friends and (well the friends i made and she sits with me at lunch everyday weather i like it or not and she thinks their friends with her when she just stocks (like whereever i am in school she is) me all the time so yeah) and i told her to f off because we deffinitally need time apart, and just stay away from me.
i also ignore her in class also because she a bia and wont stop going "are you mad at me?" and i go "no im not mad at you i-" and then she inturrupts and goes "okay then why are you ignoring me?" and then i say "you didnt let me finish my setence, i said, im not mad at you i hate you" in a serious voice.
so at the end of the school day she sits on the other side of the room and i always catch her looking at me and my friend kim was like "why is brittany staring at you and me" and i start whhispering to her and look at brit at the same time and then brit sticks her toung out (what a baby right?!!!) and looks away.
if you take my advice, tell her if you hear one roumer about you, and she was the only one who knoes, she will be in trouble. right? right.
peace out
good luck also ♥
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Simple communication? Telling people exactly how you feel is always a good way to let someone know what's on your mind, you know? It might be harsh, but it's better than leading someone on to think otherwise. If your friends turn against you, so what? They obviously weren't very good friends to begin with or they're just not worth your time. And since you're so confident in your friendship making abilities, you can always make new ones.
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This is soooooooo scary my friend is exactly like this she has a bad aditude shes so mean and she tags along and shes like my sister. and if I do try to tell her shell get all sad and mad I fixed it though. She probably wants you to be honest with her tell her you want a little break and if she gets mad dont feel bad because its her fault if she doesnt undestand. But remember dont close the door on her all the way becuase a 14-15 year friendship is way to valuable to lose so remeber to be kind. Give fb(feedback)
-The pinkprincess
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You need to get her out of your face is what you need to do. You really do need a break from her, whether your other friends are her shoulder to cry on or not, you are suffocated in this friendship. Write her a letter, call her, or anything, and explain nicely that you think that you both need some time away because you need some alone time. And no, you do not have to make up a death, or something you feel sad about, everybody eventually needs time to themselves, and thats whats wrong, you can't miss her when she never goes away. Also explain that you still want to be her friend, but you just need to be alone sometimes. Sure, she may have crying spells and just not take it well, but you have to do it, and its the only way, because soon, if you let it go on, you'll just be so frustrated that you would tell her in an unpleasant way that would keep you both apart forever. Also, think of it this way, if you were bugging the heck out of your friend, would you want your friend to let you know? Or would you rather just have her annouyed with you and you not knowing it? She'll learn to make new friends, but I think you need time to yourself.
-TheTeenGirl
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