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Am I out of my mind or way out of my league?
So, there's this kid John and he's one of my best guy friends but the thing is..i've liked him since I was in 4th grade. Last year, John and my friend Lauren went out for 2 months. Over the summer she broke up with him. Then, about a month ago, John asked Lauren back out and she said yes. I don't think Lauren likes him alot though because they don't talk --alot-- but he really likes her. John knows I like him but I don't know what to do. Am I way out of my league? Should I stick with him? Should I move on? What do you think? p.s I'm a female..He's a male..I'm 13 and he's 13
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Well based on the fact that he likes Lauren, you may have no chance. But you can always talk to him or Lauren. Maybe talk to Lauren and ask if she really likes John. (Dont tell her you like him!) And maybe talk to John about his relationship with Lauren. But as long as he likes Lauren and Lauren is willing to go out with him, you are stuck. Sorry kid.
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Hey hun its Steph well i talked to "lauren" and she does like him cuz she was worried "john" was gonna break up with her cuz eric was trying to convince him i know it may be hard but if you let go of "john" than ill let go of that loser Anthony Belive me theres wayy better guys then "john" out there and dont you think going out with him would screw up your guyzes amazingly amazing friendship?
Well see yaz at school
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i can understand being a little jealous of your friend, um.. i think lauren was her name, but still be happy for her. if you really don't think she likes john, then you should probably talk to her about if she really likes him, or if she's just using him or something. if you and john were really friends, then he wouldn't mind if you told him that you thought lauren might not like him that much.. he should just recognize that you're trying to help, and that you care about him. if you and john have been friends for a long time, then he might like you too..."friend" usually ends up being "love" if you really like him, then i dont' think it's worth getting over him. just be patient, and it'll probably end up how you want it to! hope i helped, and good luck!
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If you've made your feelings clear to him but he persists in chasing after another girl, chances are he isn't interested in you.
I don't know why you think your out of league. It is a simple matter of him liking someone else; it doesn't say a thing about you as a person.
I'd suggest you move on and accept he is blind to the good thing in front of him. If clues in later maybe you'll have a chance, but there is no point in waiting.
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