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i feel like she is using me
Alright, so I have this friend. Let's call her Diana. Whenever I tell Diana something that I am excited about she just brings me down. She'll tell me "Oh my god, no one cares" or "Does it really seem like I care?", stuff like that. Sometimes she will even hurt me physically also. She always flirts with all of the guys I used to like or even my boyfriend. Diana is very beautiful and she knows it. All of the guys adore here and such. Sometimes she can hurt my feelings so bad that I just want to cry. I really am not trying to be mean about this but how can I help get our friendship back on track? Sometimes when I tell her things I feel like she's jelous. Am I the one doing something wrong? Please help me, this is making me go through a lot of pain! Signed, Best Friend is hurting Me
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well i can name a 5 letter word taht would describe her. but that wouldnt help. i would tell her what shes doing and the effect it has on you and tell yur bf to tell her to stop flirting with him cuz hes not single or somethin like that. hope i helped.
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Well.. you can always tell her what she is doing. Tell her you dont like it. And hopefully she wont get mad.
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you should deffinetely talk to her and find out why she hurts you ! its not good that she is doing this at all ! diana is probably insecure and knows that people may look up to her becuase she is so pretty, but that doesnt mean that she can treat her best friend like shit . so anyway you should let her know how you feel and then perhaps go somewhere with her and get your act back together.
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well, theres proably about 1 thing you CAN do about this. you can talk to her. tell her that you dont like when she makes fun of you all the time when you try to tell her your secrets or something that happens to you exciting then she should be happy for you and not bring you down like that. also tell her that you dont like it when shes flirting with your boyfriend. dont tell her in a way that will make you sound controlling or mean and getting into a fight just be nice about it and listen to her more often when shes telling YOU exciting things taht happened for her. hope i helped!!
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Well it seems this girl is useing you to make herself feel better she has so many insecurities that putting you down makes her feel good But those arnt the kinda friends you want if she was a real friend she wouldnt do that and WOULD care when good things happen to you because thats aprt of what makes a friendship great if it were me i wouldnt hate this girl i just wouldnt be as tight with her
Hope i helped
Steph
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As beautiful as Diana is, for some reason she is insecure and jealous. You do NOT need any 'friends' like this, because she is not a friend. Friends are caring and supportive - and would never ever put you down on a consistent basis. Even having a talk with her won't change her or the situation, or may even make it worse. I had a 'friend' like that and let her embarrass and hurt me for years! She even called and demanded to know what my problem was, because she wasn't asked to sit with me at my husbands funeral! That was the capper and I closed that chapter in my book.
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It seems to me like this girl is a little full of herself. It seems like she doesn't care if anything great happened to her friends -- because it's not about her, it's about someone else. Plus, with all the guys adoring her and everything, that also boosts her self-confidence even more and probably wants to get even more attention. I would just talk to her about this and tell her how you're feeling and if she doesn't care.. I'd go find a new friend because obviously she's not being a great friend.. not even a good one. And she also might be jealous. If something great isn't happening to her, she doesn't want anything to do with it. Something great might always need to happen to HER, not YOU. Cause that'd then bring attention to you, not her for once. She might be jealous that you have a boyfriend and she doesn't, so she flirts with him. Like I said, just have a serious talk with her, and if she doesn't care.. move on. You can find better friends who do and always will care about you. You're not doing anything wrong. You're just being a good nice friend, that's all you're doing. I hope I helped.
Love,
MELii
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Hi There. I don't mean to be blunt, but with friends like this who needs enemies? This girl is using you as a crutch to make herself feel better when in fact she is shallow and insecure. Your time is better spent finding people who are interested in who you are and care about you.
Good Luck!
Anne Nonimous
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