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In Love-need help
Hi, I am 15 years old and I am really confused right now. Let me start at the beginning. When I was 13, my best friend at the time (we'll call her Susie) started to like this boy (we'll call him Steven) that I have known my whole life but never really noticed like that. So she sent me to be the messenger and ask him questions for her and eventually he asked his friend to ask her out for him because he "liked her too" (later I found out he was just physically attracted to her). While I was talking to him for her, I fell head over heels in love. So they "went out" (they weren't actually allowed to date, so it was just a title really) for about 2 weeks and then Susie called me and asked me to break up with Steven for her. I was reluctant, but she was my bff at the time so I agreed. I decided to break it to him gently, and when I did, he ended up being really upset. I got to comfort him and console him until he got over her. Now he and I both hate her because of the events that have happened since then, butafter he got over her, I began trying to get him to fall for me. We were talking a lot for a while and I fell even more deeply in love with him. But I only saw him in church (3 times a week) and at church functions, and so after our little social circle (us two, and about 3 other people) fell apart, we stopped talking. I didn't want to talk to him with no excuse because he might find out I like him. So I am still totally in love with him and everytime I see him, hear him, or anything I feel like I'm going to expolode! I have to write poetry to get my feelings out because they're so strong. I have written 20 poems just in the last month! What do you guys think I should do? But before you answer, consider that I am huge, fat, ugly and my self-esteem is very low. Also, both of our parents won't let us go out together or be alone for too long. What can I do? Much love,
*Isa*
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Okay, first off I am sure you are not fat and ugly. And if you really think so, eat healthier and exercize a lot. Confidence is the key roll in attraction.
Okay, so Steven... mwah mwah mwah (kissing sounds.) Lol. I say you talk to him. I realize thats hard to do, but you need to. Your in love, you need to talk to your lover! Andhere somes the whopper, after talking to him for a while, you need to tell him how you feel. I'm sorry but thats the only way. Hopefully, he will like you the same way! Good luck!
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well don't forget about your BFF that's one thing you can't let go of!!! and always believe that you could make it. miracles happen everyday! and you don't have to stop talking to him.does your best friend still have feelings for him? well if she doesn't, then go for it!!!!:) good luck!!!
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It seems to me you can accept that this is completely impossible, because of your parents, your attitude and your friends, and continue to write mournful lovelorn poetry and torture yourself...
OR
You screw up all the courage you have, talk to him again, take a risk, and face each problem as it comes up.
Those are your choices. I aint got nothing else. Live with your choice, continue to live as you are, or a take the risk.
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