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prep?
ok..i'm more of a tomboy..and my best friend is a tomboy too. but lately, all the preps and 'popular girls' are getting all the guys. haha. and so me and my best friend decided we were gunna act preppy and shit. and so she got kinda pissed that all the popular girls started liking me and the hottest guy started talking to me. so shes like forget it im not goin prep. but i still like the feeling of being preppy and shit...and so i signed up for basketball cheerleading...im wondering...was this the right thing to do? i mean, she still likes me and everything but i kinda feel weird...plz help.
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No, I don't think it was the right thing to do. The right thing to do is be yourself, and you're not. You're just being what everybody else wants you to be which is a prep. You should just be happy with yourself, and you should let the guys like you for being you. Because if a guy does like you whenever you're a prep, he's like THAT person. That persons not you. That's just a made-up person made to please everyone. And you're probably not going to be fully happy. So just tell your friend that you made a mistake and you guys shouldn't change yourselves. I hope I helped.
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Mel <3
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It wasnt the wrong thing to do your free to be who you want to be and how you want to act But if you feel weird being prep stop and go back to being a tomboy Dont try to be something your not]
Hope I helped
Steph
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I dont think it was right. You shouldn't change yourself for guys to like you. If a guy falls for you when you're pretending to be a prep, he'll be falling for a lie. Then it'll all crumble. You'll end up getting your heart broken, just stop what you're doing now. Before it's too late. Tell your friend it was a mistake and that neither of you should change yourselves.
The right guy will come around, don't worry.
hope i helped!
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if it's what you want and you're being you, you're not being fake just for attention, then yes it is right. be who you are though, don't try to be someone you're not!
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If you like being a fabrication to impress people, then yes, you've done the right thing.
If you want people to like you for you, stop following labels to impress and get your own life instead of modeling it off a 'prep' style.
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One thing I hate is people trying to be something they are not just to fit in.
And I'm not saying this to be mean.
If you truely like being a "prep" more than a "tomboy" then sure why not, sign up for basketball cheerleading.
But if you are doing that just to fit in and be like every one else then don't do it.
You should never have to change yourself just to please people. People should like you for who you are.
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