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I still love him but he moved on..
Well me and my boyfriend broke up about a month ago and I still love him a lot. But he's going out with another girl. Im still crazy about him and I really want him back. Should I wait around for him or try to move on? ..Oh, and I've heard from a bunch of people that his girlfriends gonna dump him for his best friend which is really low and I wanna tell him but he'll just get mad at me and say that I'm just trying to break them up so I can get him back.. should I tell him and risk the chance of losing our friendship but keep him from getting hurt or should I not tell him and keep our friendship but have him get hurt? Thanks in advance.. Kellie<3
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well, no matter how it happens, he is going to get hurt. possibly even more if you tell him, even though you have good intentions. not only to find out that that's what she's doing, but to know that everyone knows, but him.
he's moved on, so it's time for you to do the same. i've seen girls wait years for one guy..and it never works out. dating while your young is supposed to be to get you to be with different people so you know what you want in a relationship later...in addition to all the obvious stuff. think about it..there has to be something you didn't like about him that you would like in a guy.
for example, my ex drove and i can't yet. we went out for 4.5 months and he always came over my house because it was "easier". i felt like i made him a huge part of my life..but he didn't let me into his. in the whole time we were going out..i went over his house 3 times. that's sad.
on the other hand, my boyfriend of over a month makes me as much a part of his life as i make him of mine. i've been over his house many times and i'm inviting to do family stuff like decorate their tree and such. it's just wayy better.
that's just an example. there must be something similar you are looking for..even something small. let me know in your feedback! i'm curious. =).
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trust me, telling him will only bite you back!
He most likely wont listen to you, let alone believe you. Let him hear it from some1 other than his ex!
Not to sound mean or anything, but if she is planning on breaking up, maybe he has it coming. He shouldnt have jumped on her so fast after you, and if she does follow through on it, doesnt mean youre gonna get him back.
I was in the exact same boat as you. I guarantee, your relationship will go downhill if you do tell him.
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Well, it's obvious that he has hurt you. He deserves to feel the pain that he caused you. I know EXACTLY how it feels. Me and my boyfriend broke up about a month ago too and he also has a new girlfriend. If she was planning on breaking up with him, I know I would NOT tell him. Payback's a bitch, and let's just say..This can be your chance for him to realize how bad he really wants YOU back. In the mean time, you need to try and move on and get over him. If you truly love him, then chances are you will be there when he is ready to be with you again. By telling him his g/f is breaking up with him..It'll sound like you're jealous and then she might not break up with him. Just let it happen, and when it does..Be there to comfort him.
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No, don't tell him. He'll find out himself soon enough. Besides, what do you owe him? He dumped you and now all you can think about is helping him out by hinting that his girlfriend is going to dump him? You're right, he will get annoyed. I think it's unlikely that you'll get him back, even if him and his girlfriend do break up, unless you just back off a lot. Don't make it so obvious that you want him again, or else he'll just feel pressured and get frustrated. Good luck.
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If you and him are really nice friends i would tell him. Tell him gently..tell him to talk to his new girl and see whats going on. If he freaks he isnt worth your time
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