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I dunno Wat to do! Please help!
Yea im 15 years old and i am in love with a 17 year. He is about to be 18. but i dunno we barley know eachother n we are going out we have been going out for 3 days now n we havet did n e thing well becuz we havent seen eachother but yea when he comes to get me i just wanna grab him and give him the biggest kiss he ever got in his life! i dont no if he feels the same way! how do i no if he want to be sexually active or not? wat should i do i just dont no!
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Yuo just just communicate with him. Ask if he's ready, and if he's not then you wait till he's ready.
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Do you wanna kiss him, or do you wanna have sex with him?
First of all, you bareley know 1 another and you wanna start being sexually active with him already? Why the rush? Get to know each other. Hang out, go places together, enjoy 1 anothers company.
Keep in mind also of his age. If you both do become sexually active, he could get it for statutory rape of a minor!!!
A relationship takes time to grow. Let it happen, dont make it happen.
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From what you've written it sounds as though this guy is being very respectful of you and gentlemanly. He is not acting like the typical teenage boy who wants to go fast and potentially ruin a possibly long relationship and FRIENDSHIP. Friendship is such an important thing in any relationship. It doesn't sound like you're accustomed to guys being respectful of you. It sounds as though you're used to guys wanting to "get in your pants" the very first thing. I'm sorry if that's been your experience. The romance of dating is absolutely lost with that sort of attitude.
You guys will kiss when BOTH of you are ready. Why jump into having a sexual relationship when you can probably develop something more lasting and special? Sex doesn't make a relationship special. But if a relationship is mature, loving and mutually respectful, then the relationship will make sex special.
Please just take is slowly, appreciate his company and his respect for you, get to KNOW this guy, and be patient. You just might find out that you can like this guy more than you think you do now. You have hardly known this guy long enough to be "in love" with him. Remember, you don't have to have sex to show someone how much you like him. I certainly admire his slow approach to dating. Sounds like he's being very mature, and again (I keep repeating this - sorry), he's acting as though he actually respects you. That's worth so much!
Good luck with this relationship. It could be the best one you've had yet.
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He's an 18 year old guy. Not to overgeneralize here, but 18 year old guys mostly want to be sexually active. You just bet would be to talk to him about it! I'd suggest waiting significantly longer than 3 days before actually having sex with him though...wouldn't be the smartest thing to do just yet...
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hello.
I have been in the same situation as you are. There are a number of ways that you can handle this situation. If you are totally embarissed to ask him in person or on the phone. You could send him an e-mail or write him a letter, that could say..."i like you so much, if you every need anyone to talk to about anything you can talk to me. and if you ever wanted to go farther in our relationship...thats fine w/ me" or for christmas get him some condoms or something that will let him no that you are ok with it. and if he says its to early just say it was a joke.
kiely
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