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weird relationship
me and my bf have a good relationship. i want to have sex.i love him. i think he loves me. how would i tell him. or make it happen
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how old r you? and no, that is not bad at all.. just if you do, make sure he LOVES you and make sure you wear a condom. well, we all know he wants sex... just make sure thats not the only thing!
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I know the feeling. Just, jokingly, say (when you're around him)..god i wanna have sex. and then laugh, and say just kidding. He should get the hint from that. It's a way of flirting, and he should know that. If you don't want to do that, try making out with him and get into the "moment", once that happens..if he doesn't make the move, then you do. Just go for his shirt, or your shirt..or your pants, or his.
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just tell him you want to have sex ♥
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ok, first, WHEN YOU GUYS ARE ALONE, just bring up that subject in a random or funny way. but first of all, how old are you? cuz my advice i'm gonna give all depends on how old you are.
ages 13-16~ i personally think that this is WAAAAAY to young to have sex. but if you are absolutely certain that you are ready, then dont go to far. just do a couple things.
17-19~ ok, well if you are absolutely certain you want to, then just bring it up by saying. have you ever wondered about having sex? if he says something like, haha, no, i want to wait until after i am married." then totally drop the subject by saying, oh ok, me 2. if u ask him and he says something like, yeah lots of times, and i think i'm ready 2." then you can say, well i've thought about it and wondered if maybe you'd like to do it. if he says, ok sure." then your on good terms :-P but if he says well, i'm not sooo sure i would like to do it right now, then say ok, no problem just asking.
well i really hope i helped! GOOD LUCK!
~Rachel
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say hey sweet...do you wanna go to bed with me ;) believe me ;)
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i think you should stare making out and like you know fooling around and strate to unzip his pants or you could just talk to him; be like have you ever thought about it or just tell him you want to and ask him if hes ready.
♥ bekkee
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dont listen to all those dorks. They were teens once two lol. And by the sounds of it, they evidently didnt get any action and that was their excuses haha. Well males have this thing called testostrome, which causes us to want to have sex somewhere around every minute of every day haha. Therefore i highly bet he wants to have sex with you. So just one day when yall are messing around, make sure your along and just start taking clothes off and go with it, i promise you he isnt going to say stop lol. head is always a good starter also... www.myspace.com/determined1297
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You THINK he loves you?? Yea, i see, you're just rushing things my dear. Sex isn't going to fix anything. Think of these things: Are you responsible enough to know what could happen and how to take care of it?? Are you SURE he loves you?? Is he ready?? Do you want sex for the rigt reason??
If no to any of these questions you're not ready. Don't rush things, it'll happen when it's meant to happen.
♥ :)
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why wreck a good relationship? Sex only complicates things for young people.
You THINK he loves you? Hun, if youre not sure about that, then having sex isnt gonna prove anything.
LOVE DOES NOT EQUAL SEX!! Love says don't rush into anything.
You are sure of everything!
Having sex to prove youre love for some1 is one of the worse mistakes any1 can make. sexual pressure is a sure sign that the motivation is LUST rather than LOVE!
When teens want to have sex, its for ALL the wrong reasons!!!
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ok i'm not gonna tell you what to do, but i think you should REALLY REALLY think this through. think of your age, if you both love each other a lot that you guys won't break up, pregnancy, stds, etc. but if you really want to, you juss have to tell him. say that you love him a lot & you want to take things to the next level. talk about it through first & see how you guys feel about it & then decide if you want to er not.
-hope that helped!♥
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