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me and my bf arent sexually active even tho i want to be cuz i was wiht my last bf. i did it cuz i thought i loved him. i didnt. i know i love my bf now. after such a long relationship i just wanta take it to a new level. i want to be with him in new ways. i wnat to share that wiht him. how do i tho. and... here's where it gets hard. were both grounded for a party we were at and he lives a 1/2 hour away. we r never alone. what can i do.
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well i am kind of in the same situation as u....except i am a virgin. My boyfriend is grounded 4 a party he went 2 and i am grounded 4 ma grades.....Now u tell me. He live 45 minutes away from me, and when we do see each other we are either with his mom, public, or with our friends.....all we have ever really done is make out very intamentally. I kind of do think that he is the 1 for me to lose my virginity 2 but, i just dont know.....maybe u can help me!
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If either of you can drive, sneak around. Have him come around when no one's home. Let him know you want to have sex with him. Or you could both meet at a friend's house and do it there.
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well, i like your attitude because you don't just want to have sex b/c it feels good, but you want to be more connected to your boyfriend. just ask him how he feels about sex and has ever had it before and then tell him that you feel that your relationship is mature enough for that. as for the place part, i think it'll be easier to figure out once you're both ungrounded and once you talk to him.
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You thought you loved youre last bf? What makes you think you love this one? Why do you feel the need to take your relationship to a new level? Thats a very immature decision on YOUR part!
Sex vs. Love
love is not based on sex>sex does not equal love
Having sex and being in love is not the same thing
Mature reationships are built on mutal trust and repect, having sex wont make a relationship work. Having sex to prove ur love for some1 is one of the worse mistakes any1 can make. sexual pressure is a sure sign that the motivation is LUST rather than LOVE!
Sry hun, what you are feeling is not love if you feel the need to want sex. Doesnt sound like your bf is the one wanting it either.
Why not leave things as they are? You only complicate a relationship when you bring sex into it. Thats why relationships DONT last.
You sound very young. It doesnt matter how long of a relationship youve had, obviously sex didnt keep your last relationship together!!
If you want to keep this one going, grow with him in other ways, put sex aside until your old enough to make more mature decisions!!!
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