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Phase?
I have a boyfriend that I've been datinf for four months. I most certainly am not getting tired of him in any way, shape, or form, but I am getting upset with him a lot easier.
(IE: He went over to this girl's house to watch a movie. I didn't like that at all because it was just her and him.
He wasn't able to do something today like he said he was able to. He kinda ditched me, again.)
So, yeah, I've been getting upset really easy with him and it's taking a lot longer to get over things. Is this just a phase? How will I get over this phase? He's wonderful and I don't want to lose him, but I know if I keep this up he'll realize how sucky he has it. I want to change this before he gives up on me.
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Well, I can see why you would be mad he went over a girls house. But if you really loved him, then you would trust him - that's a key thing in a relationship. Talk to him about this and ask him why he isn't spending as much time with you anymore.
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Hi. Ok, well you might be going through a lot of stress, and since you've been getting upset with him, you might be taking it out more on him. Just apoligize if you know you went out of proportion. But, if he was the one doing you wrong (like going to that girls house) then you need to talk to him about his feelings for you. Try not to sound too mean or accusing, and just say it kind of hurts you when he does things like that, or like when he doesn't keep his word. If he says he'll try to make an inprovement, then you guys should be fine. But if he doesn't, or even tries to put the blame on you, then you're probably better then him. So don't stress over it too much. Hope I helped. good luck
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ok, first of all you need to ask yourself what are the reasons hes ditching you.
Did you guys used to hang out alot more then you do right now?
Im sorry, but i would be alittle upset if my bf was watching tv alone with another girl. Would he be ok with you being alone with another guy?
Its not a phase. It sounds like maybe something else is going on with him, but its out of your controll if there is.
Maybe you need to ask him whats going on with him lately. Ask him if theres some1 else. Hopefully he'll be open and honest with you!
Good Luck Hun!
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OK I can understand where your jealousy is coming from, its normal..but you two have a good relationship right? *(ex)..you not fighting all the time and stuff* In my group of friends we are all really tight so if one of my friends was over my bf's house just him and her, it would be all good you know? of course i would be wishing to be there with him lol..but what im saying is time apart is good..and trust is very important. So if hes with a girl ..go make plans to hang out with someone...if its just some girl that hes hangin with..and shes not apart of a tight group of friends..i would probably be a lil more..shaky on things. so if thats the case..talk to him and stuff. Talking and communication is the only way to fix stuff..keeping it inside wont make things go away ..remember that
hope i helped!
-meliss
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Just stay calm and don't think for the worse. If he goes somewhere you dont want him to, just trust him and if it goes wrong then you can dump him but for now just trust him and cool down. Go to the mall for a good day of shopping and maybe invite him for a realaxing time
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I've gone through something like that before. Sadly, they probably dont realize that you feel this way. Try talking to him, make sure your CALM (as hard as it can be i know lol) if you start catching yourself getting angry just talk a deep breathe. tell him this has been bothering you, and you feel bad for getting so upset about it, but you just want to make sure nothings going on. Im sure hes a great guy though =) good luck
xO.
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