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why does it hurt?
why does sex hurt girls theyre first time??
some people have told me that its because girls are scared and the stress makes theyre body tighten up.
and then others say that its cause girls are tight and the guys are big for them.
i know this sounds stupid. but please answer my question.
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Pain or discomfort during the first time a woman has vaginal sex have three common reasons: the inexperience or lack of attentiveness of her partner, the fact that she may be too young and her body isn't ready, and the stretching open of her hymen.
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Ok, actually all those answers people gave you are correct. Mostly its the popping of the cherry or the hymen I believe it is called. When it pops a small amount of blood comes out, but that doesn not actually hurt that much, just a littel prick of sorts. Now being nervous and tensing up will make sex uncomfortable, if you are going to do it have fun, don't stress about what you are doing right or wrong. If the guy is kinda big it will also hurt a little becuase your genitals haven't stretched and you are not used to the pressure. Sex doesn't really hurt unless you make it hurt. I wouldn't recommend sex before at least 17 and by the way I am into the no sex before marriage thing, but if you aren't thats ok, like I've said before if you are gonna do it then you are gonna do it. And if you are determined to do it, then have fun at it. Good luck, don't be scared, don't tense up, you'll be fine.
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