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My boyfriend and I been going out for a little over a year and I feel like im a noboby to him cause he never opens up with me, he won't tell me what he's feeling. Example..Just a feel minutes ago i called him and hes like hello and im like hello and he said what do you want and i said what do you mean what do i want don't you want to talk to me? he says no i don't want to talk to anyone and i asked him what's wrong and he just won't tell we got into a fight to because i hung up on him because he was being rude to me. This happens all the time! And i can't take it anymore, i want to feel like im his girlfriend when im around/talk to him not a fucking noboby!...Do you think i'm just wasteing my time on this, is the relationship dead? help please...
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In my opinion, your relationship with this guy is dead. You dont want to be dating someone that makes you feel like a nobody. Thats never a good thing. You need someone that makes you feel good about yourself and respects you.
If you want to try and make your relationship work, you should tell him how you're feeling. Talk to him face to face and let him know that you want to make it work.
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I agree with trey. My boyfriend does that sometimes and it used to upset me a lot, but now I understand him a lot better so it doesn't usually bother me at all. Guys can be like that and if you're patient, completely understanding, and sweet to him when he does it he'll probably tell you what's wrong eventually. There's no reason for you to just go and break up with him and he's not being a jerk as much as he's just uncomfortable and probably embarassed about sharing his emotional side with you or anyone for that matter. So, my advice is to give him some more time and try to be more patient. Good luck!
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: The relationships dead. If he really did care for you he'd deffinately woudl have opened up for you already I mean damn it's been a year. I'd talk to him in person that he is so close of losing you that you feel like SHIT when he talks to you and treats you like your a nobody. Tell him if this is going to continue I feel that I'm just wasting my time so it's either over or you'll change for me. I hope I helped.. If you want to give me more details into it I want to help because I love love life questions especially these kinds.
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I dont know if thats just his personality or what, but he doesnt sound like a very caring person. He sounds like he has a chip on his shoulder for some reason.
There are alot of guys who dont know how to or want to open up.
I think this relationship is going nowhere fast!
i cant believe you stuck around with him this long.
A relationship is communication between 2 people.
It doesnt sound like you even have a relationship.
Hun, i think you already know what you should do.
There are so many nice guys out there waiting for some1 like you. Give some1 else a try.
Good Luck !!
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Sorry to say but i think the realtionship is dead :-( Move on and find someone more open to u
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hey! yeah well it is kinda jerky for him to do that to you. tell him how you feel and if i were you, i would break up with him. tell him why your doing it so he knows, but definitley don't waste your time with him
xoxo helpachick
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hi,
well your kind of in a tough spot which is usual. If you want to continue with him tell him how you feel and explain to him how it makes you feel when your OWN boyfriend is just being straight up rude. If you don't want to continue then tell him it's over.
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