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I Don't Really Like Him The Way He Likes Me
There's this guy, who I'll call David. David has liked me since 6th grade (We're high school Freshman now), and a close friend of his and mine told me he's asking me out within the week, and she persuaded me to say yes. Thsi guy is everything a girl would want in a boyfriend-smart, funny, chivalrous, kind-but I'm just not attracted to him. So should I go through with it? Or dump him early into the relationship? Or just flat-out reject him. Help!!!!
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DON'T go out with him if you don't like him. Never ever ever do that. Leads you to trouble. If you don't like him like that, you need to tell him the truth. Don't be mean about 'rejecting' him though. Tell him that he IS smart, funny and kind, & that he is the perfect guy...just not for you. Also say that you still want to be friends with him, just no more than that =)
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NEVER EVER EVER EVER EVER Date a guy you DO NOT like. If you don't like him, say NO. Don't go through with it because your entire "relationship" will be a lie. And don't go through with it then dump him, that is the bitchiest thing a girl can do to a guy. It's absolutely horrible. Reject him, tell him you like him as FRIENDS and you're not attracted to him. Tell him he'll find a girl worth his time.
Whatever you do, DO NOT say yes!
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Tell him the truth. It would suck for you to play along and it would suck tenfold for him if you guys dated and he found out that you never really liked him. Just be honest with him. And don't let other people effect your decision.
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