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Need a female's POV


Question Posted Sunday October 23 2005, 2:55 am

I've been with my girlfriend for a bit over 6 months. We're very romantically close, and quite physically close(we've only kissed, but we're still very physical). She has a bit of a confidence problem, but I've mostly got that controlled. I'm wondering, what can I do to make her feel more sexy? She does a lot to make me feel sexy, but I think I need to do more to let her know that I think she is too.
Thank you in advance for your help.
16/m


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allknowing_123 answered Sunday October 23 2005, 2:31 pm:
well i wouldnt just flat out tell her shes sexy cuz then she would feel more obligated to say " your just sexy and yada yada" but if you make her feel special and dont single her out but show the world how beautiful she really is. put how you really see her as into your words to express it the right way.
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OnlyTheRightAnswers answered Sunday October 23 2005, 12:50 pm:
I think just outright telling her she's sexy is really helpful. When I first started dating my boyfriend, he would tell me I was sexy but I didn't want to believe it. I mean, I would believe that he thought I was but I didn't think I was. Eventually, him telling me sincerely really helped me believe that I was. Also, he would say that he liked just sitting and looking at me or into my eyes which really helped. Just keep your focus on her and say how sexy you think she is. It might sound cheesy at first but she'll love it eventually.

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DumBlondeCanHelp answered Sunday October 23 2005, 12:04 pm:
Compliment her looks, but be VERY detailed. Maybe even give her flowers, and write her a poem about her looks. (if you're not good at poetry then just compliment her more often...i suck :( at poetry)Make sure you dont just compliment her once in a life time. More like once in 3 days! :)
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Ivy921 answered Sunday October 23 2005, 11:41 am:
tell her in subtle but romantic ways... compliment on her looks, but use details. Not just like, you look good today, thats kind of generic, something more like, wow that sweater makes you look so good. i love it when you wear (this or that, be honest on how you feel). Or tell her how she makes you feel. Girls like the details and being specific on what you are attracted to about her will help boost her confidence.
Good luck. you are a really nice boyfriend.

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xomegaroni answered Sunday October 23 2005, 11:11 am:
tell her. i mean, whenever you're thinking it, but don't over do it er you'll look like you're doing it on purpose.

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dhrutts answered Sunday October 23 2005, 10:52 am:
Hi There,

You don't need prove anything to her your love and affection is more than enough, always re assure her about how you feel towards her and just be yourself thats why she loves you for who you are not what you are. You could buy her nice gifts etc. take her out the usual romantic things that couples do.

Goodluck

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