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My name is Jessica and I am 24 years old. Due to ALOT of recent change in my life that I had to handle on my own, I want to give other people advice since when I was going through everything I barely had anyone to turn to and I know how crappy that feels so I want to help someone who needs it. I am very laid back, love to laugh and make other people laugh. I can answer questions about pretty much anything. Feel free to IM me on AIM as well.

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Is there any websites that allow you to watch Movies for free ?

Yes, theres 2 I know of right now..


http://www.watch-movies.net/

movie6.net



Good Luck:)

On there like 2 days after a movie comes into theaters, they have it on the sites..

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i dont know how to feel about my mom. cause for some reason how she communicates with me makes me feel like she isnt on my side at all. like we are just family like the dictionary definition plain as that. i dont like that and i feel for us to be family we should be like understanding of how others feel. i just dont get why a mother would just act like that towards a daughter. i hate it though. what now that she obviously just wants to be plain. what am i going to do in like a confrontation happens. how should i behave? what should i think so i dont take things personally. i want to do the right thing i dont want to come off as disrespectful to her opinion cause sometimes life is fast and i dont really think about the common daily life thing.

Not to disrespect your mom or anything but maybe she doesnt know how to communicate with you the way you want her to. Hard as it might be to believe, some mothers just dont have it in them to be parents. Either you can tell her how you feel or just let it all bottle up until one day you explode. I say sit her down and let her know exactly how you feel about the way she treats you and see what happens. Good Luck:)

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hey so im starting school soon and i'd really like to loose some weight before then. does anyone have some easy diets or something i could try? (:

There is no easy diet. Exercise and eat right and you will lose the weight. Simple. 3 meals a day is the most important thing in losing weight. DO NOT starve yourself or you will lose weight fast and gain it back even faster. People who eat breakfast are most of the time skinnier than those who dont. so dont skip breakfast. Eat right, exercise and a positive attitude all help in losing weight. Good Luck:)

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One of my closest friends typed this Note on Facebook:

I'm sick of this teenage girl drama.

If you have a problem with me then just say it. I'm not going to sit around and put up with you "joking around" because I know there's a not just a grain of truth behind it, it's a damn truck load. You people are so immature.

Oh boo freaking hoo, I talk to your boyfriend. What's the big deal? Is he not allowed to have FRIENDS? Do you keep that tight of a leash on him? Shows how much trust you have in that wonderful person.

I've been spending my summer, no, my LIFE, trying to cut you people out of my everyday routine. How do you manage to come crawling back? By tricking me into thinking you're genuine EVERY GOD DAMN TIME. Well, you'll be glad to know that I'm sick of you and I'm not going to be putting up with how immature you people are any more. I'm completely and utterly cutting you from my life for good.

If you see me at school? Don't talk to me. If you see me on the street? Don't talk to me. If you see me in a dream? Don't talk to me. I swear to God, I want nothing to do with you ever again.

Congratulations on succeeding in being the most ridiculously immature, ignorant and self absorbed people that have ever stepped foot into my life. Oh, and for the record, you should feel pretty happy that I let you in my life for that long because you REALLY did not deserve it.

Fin.

=/ I don't know what to say. I don't know who she's referring to but I just want to let her know that it's okay and that I'm there for her. I'm good at caring but I never really know what to say.

Thanks!

Ask her if everything is okay and if she needs to talk tell her you will be there for her. Good Luck:)

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So I have an old hotmail address that I haven't logged into in a REALLY long time, and i know that hotmail used to have you reactivate your email after you haven't used it for a while, but I try to log in and it won't take the password that I was pretty sure was the right one. So I click 'forget password' and it says 'invalid address' or something like that.

So, does hotmail delete old email addresses now, or am I doing something wrong? I don't understand why it won't let me get my password back.

Thanks!

If you dont check your hotmail account at least every 30 days, they delete it.

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ok so instead of having a SMART computer that warns you AS SOON AS IT SPOTS THE TINIEST VIRUS, my computer just decided to tell me the other day that i have 2,989 VIRUS'S ON IT.

its making it really difficult to type, do anything online, or just anything general. this laptop is now basically useless unless i find a way to get these damn virus's off of it. problem is, my family is kind of tight on money right now? and so i dont want to wait 5 days for some cheap software to come in the mail. i tried restoring it, putting up a firewall, and installing this antivirus thing, but nothing works.

so my question is this: does anyone know of any good antivirus program that i can download for free online? much appreciated.

I use AVG Anti-Virus Free and I have NEVER had a virus since I installed that. It works wonder and best of all, Its FREE!. Good Luck:)

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Me and my best friend have been close for about 7 or 8 years now. We have had a pretty good friendship, with the occasional argument here and there, but very seldomly. Anyways, me and my boyfriend(my child's father) broke up 3 months ago and he moved out. 1 month ago, he moved back in and we are trying to work things out. Now, when my boyfriend was gone, me and my best friend pretty much talked on the phone everyday for hours at a time. Now that he's back, we don't do that as often. She used to come over every single weekend. She is also the god mother of my son. Now that my boyfriend is back, obviously, it is not right to still have her over every weekend. My boyfriend and her are fine with eachother, except my boyfriend feels she shouldnt come over every weekend because me and him both work all week long and weekends are more like "family time" and relaxation to him. I understand that, however, would like to see my friend as well. Even if I try and talk on the phone to her, and he just walks in from work, he gets upset because I don't stop to give him a kiss and say how was your day? Me and my best friend have talked maybe twice in 2 weeks, which is a DRASTIC change. She just told me tonight that she's done trying to call me and hear all my excuses lately as to why I don't call her or why we can't hang out. One, she lives 20 mins away and gas is expensive. Two, I work overnight AND have a 6 month old baby, so time to sleep and still get things done is precious at times. And three, I honestly do not want to argue or deal with the stress of my boyfriend and hearing him say he would like to spend the weekend spending time with me, but does it EVERY weekend. What should I do??

First off, Its great that you and your boyfriend are working things out. I would say that its up to you to make time for everyone. Family time is very important, especially if you guys are just trying to work things out now. But time with friends and alone time is important too in any relationship. Talk to your boyfriend and try to work something out. If he doesnt want you to hang with your friends ever or have time to yourself, then it most likely will not work out. Good Luck:)

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I'm 15 n me n my boyfriend are in love, we've been together for a long time n we have been through everything together. We feel like we're ready to have a baby i just dont kno what people would think n stuff, if we feel liek we're ready should we proceed with it or not? helppp..

First off, It does not matter what ANYONE thinks. Secondly, I think you should wait until you are a little more prepared for this. You are still young and if you are truly in love then you will still be together long enough to actually grow up and have a child when you are older. Babies change EVERYTHING in a relationship so just wait until you are a little more prepared for one. Good Luck:)

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Do any girls know of anything I can do to get rid of cramps? Im having them really severely and its hard to move. Thanks.

Buy some Icy Hot and rub it on the spots that hurt. It does work good. Also, eating something with peppermint in it will work for cramps as well.

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