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What can I say?


Question Posted Thursday July 31 2008, 10:33 am

One of my closest friends typed this Note on Facebook:

I'm sick of this teenage girl drama.

If you have a problem with me then just say it. I'm not going to sit around and put up with you "joking around" because I know there's a not just a grain of truth behind it, it's a damn truck load. You people are so immature.

Oh boo freaking hoo, I talk to your boyfriend. What's the big deal? Is he not allowed to have FRIENDS? Do you keep that tight of a leash on him? Shows how much trust you have in that wonderful person.

I've been spending my summer, no, my LIFE, trying to cut you people out of my everyday routine. How do you manage to come crawling back? By tricking me into thinking you're genuine EVERY GOD DAMN TIME. Well, you'll be glad to know that I'm sick of you and I'm not going to be putting up with how immature you people are any more. I'm completely and utterly cutting you from my life for good.

If you see me at school? Don't talk to me. If you see me on the street? Don't talk to me. If you see me in a dream? Don't talk to me. I swear to God, I want nothing to do with you ever again.

Congratulations on succeeding in being the most ridiculously immature, ignorant and self absorbed people that have ever stepped foot into my life. Oh, and for the record, you should feel pretty happy that I let you in my life for that long because you REALLY did not deserve it.

Fin.

=/ I don't know what to say. I don't know who she's referring to but I just want to let her know that it's okay and that I'm there for her. I'm good at caring but I never really know what to say.

Thanks!


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volleyballgamer answered Thursday July 31 2008, 7:23 pm:
If your really close friends, and your curious of what's going on in her life don't be afraid to ask her, as long as this thing isn't about you haha. Just point blank say "Is everything okay? I read your note on facebook and I'm just letting you know if you want to tell me you totally can(: I'm just curious, but you don't have to tell me if you don't want to(:" just plain and simple! She can't get mad at you if your not forcing her to tell you what its about, does that make sense? I think it'll be fine, just let her know that your here for her and your lucky to have a friend like her! (: hope I helped!

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sweetheart99 answered Thursday July 31 2008, 6:32 pm:
well just tell her you read the note on facebook and that you were wondering who it was about and that your there if she wants to talk about it and if she doesn't want to tell you then just give her some space

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AnonymousAdvisor answered Thursday July 31 2008, 2:45 pm:
What else is there to do?
Ask her if she's alright & if she needs anyone your there for her & your always going to be.

Put two & two together...

Think of all of her friends...
Which ones have boyfriends...
Which ones are jealous....


You'll always get four =]
Hope I helped...

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Jessika1023 answered Thursday July 31 2008, 2:09 pm:
Ask her if everything is okay and if she needs to talk tell her you will be there for her. Good Luck:)

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Brandi_S answered Thursday July 31 2008, 2:01 pm:
What to say?

How about one simple message:

"Are you alright? I'm here if you need me."

ygs-30/f

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