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Another horrible bestfriend and boy question
I'm 13 [almost 14] female
Emelia = bestfriend 14/ f
Jordan = guy who likes me 15/ m
Nick = guy who likes me and who Emelia likes.12/m
Twaddlez = ex-boyfriend , I still love. 15/m
Okay , so Emelia liked this guy Nick and he liked her , after only meeting once.So then I was talking to him on MSN and we decided to hang out that day , this was 2 days ago.So , we hung out , had a good time ext...Then the next day when we talked , he told me he liked me and I said the same because he's an awesome guy BUT he'slike a foot and a half shorter than me and that BOTHERS me...So he calls me Pebblez , it's just a nickname or whatever and he put on his MSN name " luv ya Pebblez" and Emelia came on and FLIPPED at me because she asked me if I liked him a few days ago and I said no,then it changed.So she got pissed at me , but every other week she's mad about something , she always gets over it in a few days.
THEN to make it all the more complicated , Nick asked me out.I told him I'd sleep on it last night.But Emelia told him she loves him so much and he doesn't like her. AND okay , the thing I don't get is after Emelia dumped Nick , all she did was complain about how annoying he is...now that he's into me , she's all I LOVE YOU.
NOW for Jordan...I've known him for about a year and a half now , we're goin to the same school next year , he's always been super nice to me and all , but I just don't like him like that but he's so sweet , he could give me cavidies.
ANNNNNNNNNNNNNND , there's my [uhg] ex-boyfriend Twaddlez [yes Twaddlez lmao , don't ask], and he just dumped me like 2 Sundays ago and I loved him...I miss him and I really want him back...but he has a new girlfriend.BUT I know he still likes me a bit.And we share something special because he was a greener [make-out virgin] and we had a really romantic make-out session under the sun-set / stars ext and we just share a lot of special memories together.So , I have an advantage , but he's been out of town for a week , he's getting back soon though...
WHat should I do ? Who should I go for ? I know they'd all treat me right and all but honestly , the only person I want a relationship with is Twaddlez...
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Well lets start with your best friend Emelia. It sounds like the only reason she said that Nick was annoying and all that, was because she still liked him and she was trying to recover from it but didn't want to show it to you or anyone else. So she complanied about him to make it seem more like she was over him and didn't care anymore. So now that your flirting with him and like him shes well jelous and its hurting her. Shes trying to show you this by flirting with him and saying she loves him so maybe he'll choose her and not you. It sounds like its really hurting her, so the best thing for you to do would be to say no to going out with him.
Well it sounds like this Jordan guy really likes you, but if you don't like him back the way he likes you then you have to be honest with him and tell him that you don't feel the same way. Tell him it would be best if you two were just friends.
But if you think that might hurt him then introduce him to another girl that you know he would like.
Now for the ex-boyfriend. If you really like him then i say wait for him. He and his girlfriend might one day break up and if they do then you'll be there waiting for him, but you have to give it some time. He's going to be in some pain if they do break up. Just be there for him for a while and if he does like you then he'll ask you out.
I hope my adive helps you.
Yours truely
-Samantha
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