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I'm so confused.
Ok, so here's the deal, I have this REALLY good guy friend, I mean he's like my best friend. Well, he just recently broke up with his girlfriend, and it looks like they aren't gonna get back together like he wants to.Well... I have started kinda liking him. Well, last night, me and two of my other friends went over to his house while one of his other friends was there. Well, he kept flirting withme, and like touching me and stuff,then I was like "Let's play truth or dare" and he goes "I dare myself to have 7 minutes in heaven with -my name-" so, I kinda just laughed.. but, he was serious, and so was everybody else in the room. So, we go in the closet, and they shut us in. Well, I didn't think he liked me, and I didn't think anything would happen. Then, he started touchingme, and like pullin me closer, and we starting kissing (this was my first kiss),then we started making out and he was like touching my butt and everything. Then, we get out of the closet, when our time is up, and a little while later he started talkin to his friend privately, and I found out that he told his friend that he was gonna ask me out. Then, we went back in the closet for a few more minutes.. and that was it. But, I'm so confused, cause this was last night, and he hasn't asked me out, and he has said a few things about his ex-girlfriend. I don't know what to think.. and I feel so crappy cause I really dolike him alot.. and I just wish he would ask me out. Sorry this was so long, but if anybody has any advice it would be greatly appreciated, and I'll rate 5's. Thanks.
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Ok. Have you told him that you like him? It might help alittle. But besides that, Hang in there, and just keep giving him hints and it should happen!
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Maybe give it time. He may be nervous that you would say no. And give him time to get over his ex. Maybe he didn't say anything to you right away because he was still hurting inside because of his ex. Good luck! Hope I helped!
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i would say give him some time & dont try to rush things.. because he JUST broke up with his girlfriend.. and you dont just want to be the rebound girl that he uses to make his ex jealous & such things.. so just give him time to get over his ex & to think striaght.. & yeah he prolly is sending mixed signals bcuz he is also confused.. rate me please love ya *courtney
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Well i was sort of in a situation like this once. Me and my best friend tried to make that type of thing work but it didnt end up working out and im lucky we are still such good friends because breaking up can really hurt your relationship with people. I think this guy still has feelings for his other girlfriend if he is talking about her after they broke up. He might just be vulnerable and wants to feel good about himself. So it's possible that he's just looking to you for comfort. Or me might like you. If you like him but you dont want to be used then if he does eventually ask him out let him know you would like to wait. Tell him the truth. You want to know it's real.
I hope i helped !!!
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u dont want 2 be the rebound.so you might want 2 wait a little. this really sounds like me... cause my best friend is a guy it has been that way forever but one day he went out with on of my girl friends and then he was goin 2 hang out with me and he dumped her the day before and then he stared kissing me and i liked him so it was hard to tell him that i didnt wanna be his rebound... but this is about you. maybe u should ask him out if you really like him.
hope it helps
&heart;ria
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well you just need to talk to him you said he is a really good friend as well as a crush (that is complicated) but you know how lads are , you just have to be pacient. good look xxx
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Have you talked to him about this at all? You don't have to be all up-ons, but I do think you should let him know you're pretty confused, and you want to know why he did that, and what's in store for the future, if anything. I'll bet he's pretty confused too - it sounds like he's got feelings for more than one person, and it might take time to sort out what he wants to do. (You'll probably need to figure out what you might say to him if he asked you to go out with him while he's going out with/pursuing other people too - some people are OK with that, some people just can't do that.) But: If he's a good guy friend, your first duty is to help him through whatever he's going through.
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be patiant gurl.its only been 1 day.if he likes you then he's taking his time so he can have the right words to say.dont worry.its seems that he like you so it will happen
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well just wait it out for a few days and if nothing happens ask his friend whats up with it. Or you could ask him out yourself. Ive never asked anyone out before but he might be building his confidence.
I hope I helped
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hey i think tht you should call him and ask him to go to a movie or sumthing and see wht hapens mabe he'll ask you out or if he puts a move on you then tell him you dont feel right cause your not going out yet then he'll prob ask you out or you could just ask him out!!
give some feedbak
and tell ya friends about me and amd amanda!!!
best of luck, becca and amanda
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You have to talk to this guy that you want to go out with him and that you had your first kiss ,a lot of guys like that.Also that you really like him and he certainly feels the same because of the way he touched you and kissed you it tells it all.Ask him if he feels anything for his ex well so you don't have have doubts in your mind.You shouldn't feel crappy I mean you guys made out because you like each other there's nothing wrong with that.Talk to him alone without his friends there or if they are tell him you need to speak to him in private.Hope everything turns out right for you.
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haha holy cow first of all congrats on the first kiss girl. i cant really think of anything that you could do i mean now is just a time to sit and wait and maybe you dont really want to but you just gotta see if he is gonna ask you out. if time goes by and he hasnt ask one of your other friends to talk to him about it
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oh ok well i was n this sam situwation sorta my ex bf that i really liked to my best friend that he was gonna ask me out so i got all happy n waited n weaiten n the i got mad at her bc he didnt ask me out laugh out loud n i felt really stupied but then like 3 days l8r he asked me out in i wasnt expectn it at all or anythign it was so specail so mayeb you just need to keep flirtn back n see wat happens after that n if he really likes you like that then he will ask you out so just be urself n be pacent
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I'll apologize for percieved harshness:
Interesting.
He breaks up with his girlfriend, who he can't shut up about, makes out with you, says he's going to ask you out, but doesn't.
Do you know why?
He isn't over that other girl. So guess what that makes you.
Rebound girl.
You can accept or reject this position in his life. He could grow to like you, sure, if you're willing to stay unhappy for that long of a time. Even if/when you're with him, you won't really be with him. His heart is with some other girl.
Keep that in mind when you make your decision. Just because he kisses you doesn't mean he feels anything for you. And just because he tells someone else that he's going to ask you out, doesn't mean he's actually going to.
But if you seriously want to date him, wait it out. Don't do anything with him at that time. See what happens.
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