my friend atdance brags all the time. she say how good she is and shows off all the time. if i get complimented and she doesn't, she tells ME i'm a show off... what can i do to tell her to stop??
Derfel answered Monday July 19 2004, 4:07 pm: Well all I will say is: 1- you decide who your friends are and 2- you're friends should be your friends for who they are ... So you shouldn't need to change them. I'll let you take it from there!
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Lizzy answered Monday July 19 2004, 3:25 pm: When she does brag, take her to the side at that moment and tell her that you know she's a good dancer, but when she says it all the time, it makes her seem not as good. Let her know what you think of her dancing. Telling her what she is doing wrong will stop her from saying something that will get on someones nerves in teh future, so you would be helping her a lot by telling her.
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kevin1986 answered Monday July 19 2004, 3:11 pm: Pretty much nothing. Some people crave attention and your friend sounds like one of those people. You may tell her that you feel she's being onoxious,but that's no guarantee her behavior will stop. She must feel insecure about something and that's why she shows off. She feels she needs to prove herself. [ kevin1986's advice column | Ask kevin1986 A Question ]
kel6136 answered Monday July 19 2004, 3:02 pm: Hey I kno exactly wat ur goin thru caz iv gone thru the same thing! im in dance n one of my best friends is always telling me that she is better than me. then if the teacher compliments me she says that i was just showing off. my oh my does that make me mad! its not my fault that the teacher complimented me. and its not ur fault either! you should definitly confront the girl the next time she says something like that to you. jus explain to her that its mean that she is telling u that ur showing off and that it hurts u wen she says things like that. welp i hope i helped! =) [ kel6136's advice column | Ask kel6136 A Question ]
tikibikini answered Monday July 19 2004, 2:51 pm: tell her that you dont care what she thinks because she may be good but other people may think you are good. if she doesnt understand then dont dance with her [ tikibikini's advice column | Ask tikibikini A Question ]
brunneteqt69 answered Monday July 19 2004, 2:43 pm: She has a problem and she obviously doesnt realize it. When she says that ur a show off just tell her no im good.lol..if it is seriously bugging u tell her that its really annoying when u talk about urself all the time. nothing is gunna happen unless u confront her.
Kissxme1121 answered Monday July 19 2004, 2:41 pm: When she says your a show off, remind her of the last time she bragged about how good she was. Or everytime she brags, call HER a show off! Rate me plz! [ Kissxme1121's advice column | Ask Kissxme1121 A Question ]
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