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play hard to get??
almost 16 female.
I like more than one guy. 5 to be exact. and if one of them asked me out, i would go out with any of them. but heres the thing, my friends say that im too shy and that i should make the first move. (btw im not even friends with any of these guys) so all of my friends say that i should send them an IM and be like hey whats up. now im really desperate for a boyfriend so i dont know if i should first be friends with all of these guys and see who makes a move first or just go for one guy and play hard to get.
or should i even play hard to get? because im so desperate and i was thinking maybe i should just straight out tell one of the guys that i really like him... what do you all think?? help!
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do not play hard to get.
trust me, i've tried it.
if you know one of their IMs, message him.
befriend him. flirt with him. ask him if he can hang out with you, to the movies or wherever.
if you're too shy to go just with him, tell himto invite a friend and you'll invite a friend, a double date.
if you want, experiment. by that i mean, IM one the five and flirt with him and ask him if he wants to go out with you, if you're really that desperate.
hopefully i helped. good luck with the five.
~chris.
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Oh dear. I definitely don't agree with the making lists of people's bad qualities and then forgetting about those with the most. That's like natural selection and it's honestly very stupid and immature. So I don't suggest you do that.
Try starting conversations with each guy and seeing who you relate to more. Yes, conversations in person. AIM, though very useful, is very very very impersonal. The best way to determine if you truly like someone is to have an actual face-to-face conversation.
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Playing hard to get really irritates most guys, to be quite honest. I don't suggest doing it. If you end up deciding you only like one of them, just flirt with him. If you play hard to get, I can almost guarantee he'll become uninterested.
--Jack
(16/m)
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I would be friends with all these guys first,feel them all out until you find one that fits you alot more then the other 4 guys.But too do that,you have to call/text/IM them and say "hey you wanna hang out?".But whatever you do don't play them,because your playing with their hearts.And i would'nt suggest "playing hard to get" most guys don't like that because they think the girl dosent like them if they ignore them,and so they move on.I've seen it happen alot.Just don't choose a guy for the sake of getting a boyfriend,because if you do that,chances are the relationship won't last that long.Get to know them all,be friends before you make a decision to choose what guy you want.
♥ danielle
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whatever you do dont let all of them know that you like them. and yea you should make the first move--the IM idea is great. dont necessarily be friend friends (you know what i mean ?) but be "buddies". dont play toooo hard to get and dont let them know that youre desperate.this is gonna sound silly but just do it--it works! get out 5 sheets of paper. now write down their names. list everyones bad qualities. now cross out the 2 name with the most bad qualities. now for the remaining 3 list all the good qualities and try to make a move on the top guy (the one with the most good qualities). if you find out he doesnt like you, make move on the next one, etc.
i really hope i helped! ive tried this and it works trust me ! l0l =]
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