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so i'm on vacation, i have been for 2 weeks. my family is staying with our old neighbors who moved here, and we wanted to visit them. before they moved i had been fooling around with their son, but he only fingered me and we made out. i was pretty much guessing something else was going to happen between us when i slept in his house for two weeks, and it definitely did. he fingered me, ate me out, and i have him a handjob and blowjob. but my real question is that one of my other neighbors that still lives with me, shes one of my really good friends, and in their son's grade, told me he has herpes and gonnerhea and all these other STD's and i have one sore on the inside of my lip and i'm really really nervous that i got an STD from him even though before i gave him oral sex he told me that he gave blood 6 months ago, so theres no way he could have one, right? and to make it worse, he has a girlfriend, so who knows what he's been doing beind her back other than me, right? how do i know if i have an STD? or just any other advice on what to do? i cant drive to a doctor, and im not telling my mom. i'm only 14.
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sore on the inside of your lip can possibly mean you have syphilis.
good news: it's curable.
bad news: you'll need to see a doctor. meaning, your mom will find out.
if you ignore this, syphilis could cause serious effects such as damage to the heart, aorta, brain, eyes, and bones. in some cases these effects can be fatal.
now about the boy and his girlfiend..
honestly if i where you i wouldn't talk to him.
but that wouldn't help, so just confront him and tell him that what you did was a mistake n to forget what happened becaue i'm sure his girlfriend wouldn't be too happy if she found out.
i'd probably warn his girlfriend too, and next time try having a romantic relationship not a sexual relationship, you're way too young.
good luck and hope your mom doesn't completely kill you.
:) ~chris. stay safe, kay?
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I know you don't want to tell your mom, but you need to see a doctor. YOu need to get yourself checked out. Listen, if you have any kind of STDs you can mess up your female organs, which will prevent you from having kids someday. It may not seem like a big deal right now, but I don't want you to mess up you life and health, because you took to long to see a doctor.
And just because he gave blood doesn't mean he's STD-free. A sore on your lip can be a sign of herpes, due to genital contact, so please see a doctor. Also, if you look under cosmogirl.com they have a thing on STDs b/c of their last issue, look at it, and please tell someone who can help you. You can be seriously damaging your health.
I'm sorry if I'm scaring you, I just want to make sure youll be okay, and you will be if you see a doctor.
Best of luck to you in the future and be careful!
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herpes simplex type I,causes sores in the mouth ususally.Look at these pictures:
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look through all of the pictures,if any of those cores look like anything in your mouth,i would suggest getting yourself checked out to make sure it's not an STD.So that means you have to tell your parents.Doctors can usually give you prescribed meds like Famvir, Acyclovir, or Valtrex to treat it,which you cant get over the counter.But for now,i would avoid any sexual contact with this boy or anyone else for that matter because herpes CAN be spread,until you get yourself checked out.If you have anymore questions,just leave one in my inbox :)
♥ danielle
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