My boyfriend always ignores me. He complained I was clingy and we argued for about three days over it. And then made up. But still, I felt weird when we hung out, scared almost. I was scared to say or do certain things in case I came off as clingy. We went through the day just fine. And afterwards he didn't even call or text and every time I give him space he doesn't bother to answer.
I mean first the relationship was perfect. And then it just went downhill... He said we'll fix it but he isn't doing his part and whenever I text or call to talk about it, he ignores me. My mom said to ignore him even if he ends up contacting me, but I just wanna get it over with. Should I break up with him or go with my mom's plan?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Lessthan3ofgod answered Friday July 22 2011, 11:20 pm: I mean even if you don't want to mention it to him one more time about him doing his part. If you talk to him about it though make sure it is in person. Don't ignore him because that will just make things worse. Talk to him about how you feel and to be honest i would break up with him because I wouldn't be capable of dealing with that. You don't need that kind of stress and it's not good to constantly worry about your relationship. You shouldn't have to worry about your relationship. You two aren't right for eachother, and a clingy boyfriend is not good because eventually he gets too protective and he will start to control you and that is very unhealthy. Break up with him and move on. You don't need the stress. Move on with your life and don't go back to him even if he begs because you will end up the same way eventually. Just be careful and be safe, and good luck my dear.
sadiegirl answered Thursday July 14 2011, 1:36 am: Your mom maybe right. i think you should try what she said and if that doesn't work then you should break up. it sounds like you really care about him but it also seems like he is having trouble caring about you or at least showing he cares. [ sadiegirl's advice column | Ask sadiegirl A Question ]
tlaki answered Thursday July 14 2011, 12:31 am: Hey
I think you should take your mom's advice. Sit back and see what happens. Mothers know what's best for their children.
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