|
i miss him..
well today i started talkn to my ex and i realized that i love him and want him back but i have a bf and i had waited for nmy bf for 3 months to finally come around what should i do!!!
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Honestly, I have a little saying: There's a reason he's in your past. Don't go back to him. I've seen people do it time and again and get hurt every single time. If he was worth everything, he'd be in your present and in your future.
Now, as for your bf, you need to sit and think about whether or not your feelings for your ex are affecting your feelings for your bf. Are they fair to him? Is he going to stay by your side while you attempt to get over your ex? Ask yourself questions like that and decide if you should still be with your current boyfriend. You can even go so far as to tell him how you feel (only recommended for VERY FEW boyfriends), and he might be willing to help you.
]
i think that if you truly care about your ex you need to find out if you want your ex over your bf right now. i had a situation like this but i choose me bf over my ex because he hasn't done anything wrong. if he does do something wrong and hurtful break up with him and go to your ex thats what i am doing, but make sure your ex still likes you so you dont break up with your bf for no reason. i know this might be complicated but trust me just go with your gut feeling and do what you think is right. that is what i have been doing and in the end i never went to my ex because with my bf i learned to get over him. good luck! hope i have helped!
message me if you need anything or have any questions:)
]
its really up to you... whichever one you love the most.
but let me tell you this- sometimes its not the person you miss.. its the memories you've had with them that you miss. So maybe you don't miss your ex, maybe you just miss the stuff you've done with him and all the memories that you 2 shared.
Personally, i'd just stay with your current boyfriend. My past experiences, there was always some kind of drama. To be truthful, i'm sick of drama now. I'm all about staying away from drama and difficult situations. It just causes stress and troubles, which I don't want. In this particular situation, I would stay with my current bf because if I got back with my ex, it would just be more drama. your boyfriend would get jealous and then start fights. You and your ex may not get along like you used to. You still might have feelings for your bf etc.etc. see what I mean? it's just adding to your problems if you go back to your ex. Just keep it safe and simple, stick with your boyfriend if you're happy with it :)
However, if you're not happy with your boyfriend, then by all means dump him. There's no point in staying in a relationship if you're not having fun. If you feel like you'd have more fun with your ex, then go for him.
But just remember what I said- you could just be missing the memories, not him. And try to stay away from drama as much as possible, otherwise it will literally make you go crazy haha. Unless you're a wannabe drama queen..
]
More Questions: |