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DRAMA! :/
I HATE drama, i see no point in it! i have these friends Kayla and Brianna. Brianna has been dating this guy named Tiger for about 3 months now. Kayla wrote a note to Tiger and made Brianna and Tiger break up. The DAY they broke up Kayla started going out with him. They both wanted me to pick sides. i hate picking sides because both of them are my best friends!! is there any way to help the situation but stay out of the drama?? I hate them being in a fight because i have to hang out with only one of them every day! i cant ever sit with my friends at lunch! no even my boyfriend!!
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I agree with you on 1 thing.. drama sucks. Stay out of it as much as possible. I dont know how old you are.. but if you are in high school or going into high school, my best advice is make friends with GOOD people and stay out of drama! I learned the hard way. My friends weren't that great people and there was lots and lots of drama throughout my 4 years in high school. I've learned my lesson. I need to pick better friends who won't cause drama.
It sounds like Kayla is a drama starter. She's also very selfish and has no respect for other people because she broke up her friends relationship just so Kayla could have what she wanted. That's very low and a horrible horrible thing to do. I would stay FAR away from kayla as much as possible. If she did that to Brianna, there's a big possibility she would do it to you too. Unless you want more drama, then stay away from Kayla. She's not a true friend and doesn't deserve to have a loyal friend like you :)
I don't see why you should stop being friends with Brianna. She didn't do anything wrong :) So if I were you, stay friends with Brianna and help her out. She's probably feeling a lot of pain right now. Be a good friend and help her out. Make her feel better. Be there for her, because when you're in trouble, she will help you out too!
Now I don't mean this to come off wrong, but picking sides is a very very immature thing to do. The last time i "picked a side" was when i was in 4th grade.. I'm 18 now. There's no way you should "pick a side". thats so immature. If both of them ask you to pick a side, just say you're more mature than that and don't want a say in any of this.
Its THEIR problem... you shouldn't have to be in the middle of this. Tell them to leave you alone and just back out of it. They started it, they need to finish it by themselves. Don't get in the middle of it. Be a good friend and let them know that you're here for them if they want to talk to you, but you shouldn't pick sides.
Good luck and I hope you find better quality friends...
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If Kayla would do that to Brianna you can expect Kayla to do that to you. If this is who you want as a friend then get ready for some more drama. If you had to pick sides I would pick Brianna because it sounds like she is the victim in this case. Kayla seems like she is trouble and if she can do a friend wrong by breaking them up and than start dating this guy she is not worth having as a friend. She will end up doing you wrong. Good luck with this matter. But you should know already what to do. It sounds like Kayla don't know how to be a true friend because true friends do not do what she did. Drop her as a friend because she will do the same thing to you.
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