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Messed up friend
14/f
Ok, so the other day my friend and I were hanging out at my house. This friend is jealous because she liked my boyfriend before he asked me out and wants to ruin our relationship. While we were hanging out, she started texting my boyfriend pretending to be me. She was saying really weird things, so I got my phone and texted my boyfriend that all those texts were from her. So then, she takes my phone and starts pretending to be me! I don't know what she told him because she deleted all my sent mail. I asked my boyfriend later and he wouldn't tell me because what she said was too mean. As if that's not enough, this friend knew that once she left I was just going to tell my boyfriend it had all been her. So, I walked her to the door when it was time for her to go and asked to have my phone back (my dad was in the room; he witnessed the whole event.) She told me she left it outside where we had been. I looked out the window and didn't see it, then turned around to find her PUTTING MY CELL PHONE INTO HER BAG. I asked "What are you doing??" and she laughed like it was all some joke and gave the phone to me because my dad was right there. She then asked me to come outside to look at her motorized scooter. I fell for the trap and came out with her. She grabbed the phone from my hand, hopped on her scooter and took off down the block. I started yelling after her and even stared crying! I ran inside and got my mom. We both came out, me in tears and my mom got very mad at my friend and got the phone back. She didn't apologize, so I texted her a few days later and we had a conversation about it and I said to her "we need some time to cool off" cuz I'm not allowed to see her anymore (not that I want to.) All would be fine except we are going to the same high school this fall and we're both trying out for the tennis team and may have the same elective. What should I do when I'm with her in the fall? I'm a really nice person and don't want to be a bitch but she's crazy! I don't want to be friends with her! How should I handle her when I see her again if she tries to talk to me?
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ok first off this girl is not someone you need to be friends with ! my best bet is to ignore her .although you two will be around each other you dont have to socialize with her if you choose not to , by doing so it will make her get the point that you want nothing to do with her ,it wont be so easy high school can be tough and very dramatic but just ignore her and focus on what you have to do ,she will soon realize that she means nothing to you and will eventually leave you alone
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wow! that's really weird and crazy...
well karma for her. and good for you for not wanting to be friends with her.
I think, if you don't want to be friends with her, then you don't have to be friends with her. Nobody is forcing you to be friends with her. Yeah you guys are going to the same high school and try out for the tennis team, but that doesn't mean you need to be glued at the hip with her.
Just ignore her. She is not a true friend. She doesn't respect you, because she's trying to break you and your boyfriend up (that also shows that she's an immature little 14 year old selfish brat who doesn't care about other people's feelings). There's no point in continuing to be friends with her.
If you see her, just look past her like she's invisible and keep on walking with your head high :) Girls like her will end up with NOBODY because of the way they act. If you just keep your head up high and have good morals, then it will pay off and you'll be happy :) don't worry about her. let her suffer.
If she tries to talk to you, be polite and say "hi" but then say you have to go.
Let me remind you 1 more thing- you've already fallen into one of her traps (the one with the scooter).. don't fall into any more of her traps anymore. If she puts on the "sorry" face and has those puppy dog eyes and starts asking you to forgive her, thats a trap. Say NO and walk away because she doesn't deserve to have a good loyal friend like you :)
Good luck and inbox me if you have more questions!
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You do sound like a nice person so if/when you see her again and if/does talk to you nicely explain that you don't want to talk to her or be friends with her and say that i don't deserve a friend who does what you did, im sorry. or something along those lines. well Good luck!
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