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I don't know about "us" anymore.
I've been dating my boyfriend since June 8th. It was perfect from the first time we met. We had good chemistry and a lot of things in common, with the same interests and quirky silly attitudes, to the love of animals and art. He and I got along so great.
In the weeks that followed, it couldn't be any better between us. He was everything I wanted, complimenting and comforting me, so loving and so romantic. He always showed me he cared and never let me down. He told me how much he loved me everyday and made so much time for me and invited me to family events. His family really enjoyed me. But somehow it all went downhill. I became punished and got my phone taken and wasn't allowed to see him but when I was off punishment he practically died when he heard I was back. He was so excited. Everything went great and we called each other every night, but then around Thursday, things just got sour. He ignored me all day and I got worried. We got in an argument because I got scared and he didn't tell me he was out drinking, so on and so forth. The next day everything was fine. He apologized and so did I, and it went smooth. However, yesterday wasn't so good. I called him and he ignored my call but answered my texts saying that he is awake. He stopped texting me back and then I stopped talking to him and asked what was wrong. He said I was too clingy and he got mad from what I did Thursday. So I gave him space. Today he and I are supposed to go to the river and he was told to wake up at ten but he isn't answering and I'm upset. He disappoints me all the time. I love him but I don't know what to do anymore.
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this sounds like you guys really care about each other. when me and my boyfriend got in a fight for the very first time my friends told me that every good relationship the people have fights. i thought that was true but he started getting rude. im still with him. my advice for you is to just let it blow by and give it a rest for a few days maybe a little longer. if its still not working then maybe its just time you guys break up.
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Well you have two options.
The first option is to confront him about it and ask him why he's acting the way he is. Most guys in the beginning of a relationship are in the honeymoon phase. So ask him about whats going on and how you can fix it. And then see if he fixes it and if not you should think about option two.
The second option is move on. No one likes this option but its something you should consider. If you aren't being treated right why would you want to stay with him. One person can be the relationship because it takes two people. If he is going to ignore you and treat you like this its not fair and it should notbe allowed.
So my advice is talk to him and see what happens. If he doesn't change you need to consider the other options. Good luck!
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Well your boyfriend is right you were being a little clingy. Guys don't really like clingy girls, I mean well to a certain extent but it also depends on the guy. If you text him and he doesn't answer then he's probably busy doing something, but if he really loves you he will eventually text you back just wait and you really don't need to know where your boyfriend is every minute of the day, you should trust him and give him space for their own life. No one likes to be smothered. Just give him some time and space in time he will text you. Just wait a little while.
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