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HEY! im a 18 year old female from Canada. I love helping people and giving advice. It truly makes me happy when i help someone and i plan to make a career outta this.Im planning on being a youth/child worker. Helping people is in my blood. Im a very down to earth girl, shy, outgoing and has a bit of a attitude at times. Making peoples lives better and happier is my alltimate goal in life! If you have any questions for me, id be more then happy to answer them. V
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Id like to hear yalls opinions about tongue rings on girls 18+. Ive always wanted one because I loveee piercings/tattoos, I like the way they look, and I always like to have something in my mouth like straws, pens, cigarettes (i really want to quit). I wouldn be that girl whos always showing it off and would want it far back enough where its not terribly noticable.


Do you think its trashy when a girl has a tongue ring? (Like i said, not showing if off but if you just noticed when she was lauging or something)

Thanks! (link)
Personally i dont find anything wrong with them. But they tend to have a bad rep. From personal experience people have told me to never get my tongue done, maily beacause adults will lose respect for you cause they know what it is used for. Not like your getting it for that purpose if you know what i mean ;) but im just saying that for job interviews and such in the future, employers take note to that and they might not care for it or think it is professional. Its your life. Do wat you want. But im just letting you know that people tend to judge someone who has their tongue done. Go for it if you want.



We had a stupid fight because i sprayed his cologne. We argued and carried attitude for about 30 minutes until he called me a worthless ***** then i asked him why would he get mad just because I sprayed his cologne. He told me to say it again and as i said it he punched me right in the mouth and busted my bottom lip. He said he was angry and didn't mean it. We have been together for since freshman year in high school and this has never happened before. what do you think? (link)
Leave him! You have to. You have to because he is abuisive. It is an endless cycle. He will get so mad and then hit you, then feel bad about it and buy you things, make you feel better so that you dont leave him. Then the cycle starts all over again. I know this may be hard to hear, but you have to leave him. If he can do it once, he can do it again and it might be even worse. Something so small like that setting him off, what if something else bigger happens? You can get really hurt. You dont deserve to be treated like that, nore being disrespected like that. Noone deserves that, no matter how much you guys love eachother.

You have to leave him. You deserve so much more. If a guy punched me, that shows his anger issues and that he has no respect for me. I would istantly leave him, no matter how hard it was. If you love him, which im assuming you do, you have to leave him. If you dont get out now, then his anger issues may continue and even get worse. Then he might prevent you from leaving and that brings so many more issues. This is not your fault, you have to know that. You should leave him. Hope your ok and make the right decision :)
good luck!

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I am dating my besfriend, the love of my life and the man I will marry! Unfortunately he lives across the country and we only see each other a few times a year. I won't get to see him till next spring, and I am so upset. I feel so lonely here, I mean I Love my family and friends but it doesn't help. Even in a crowd I feel alone. I miss him, and I don't know what to do. HOW DO I COPE WITH THIS BECAUSE I FEEL LIKE A TRAIN WRECK! (link)
I know exactly how you feel. I am currently in the same situation. I am from Canada and my boyfriend is from USA. We were planning on meeting this summer, but his parents wouldn’t let him because he is going to college soon. So now we are planning on meeting next summer, hopefully. We met last Feb and have been talking every since. Overall we have been talking to each other for 17 months. It will be 2 years till we actually met. Right now he is gone to another state for a job for 4 weeks and so we are unavailable to talk to each other.

Something’s that we do to keep going is talking to each other everyday. I would strongly invest in downloading SKYPE. It really helps. Being able to see and hear him is really special. We kiss the screen a lot and play a lot of games. There are games you can play on skype that really help cause normally just talking on cam gets boring after awhile. We send gifts, letters, pictures to each other. We play 1000 questions and learn more about each other. We go on utube and share the screen on skype and watch vids together. But the number one thing we do that helps both of us, is just by talking to eachother about the future, what we want to do, how our day went, how much we miss them, and just basically showing support to the other person. Cause you have to remember that they are going through the same thing.

Long Distance Relationships are extremely hard. I would have to say this is the hardest thing I have ever had to do in my life. And it is even harder because we have never actually met or had the physically connection like most couples do. You have to have supportive people around you, that will help you out a lot. Talking to him about everything going on with you, including your doubts, fears ect. It brings you closer as well as understanding the other person.

My advice would to down load SKYPE. We SKYPE everyday and it helps a lot. A few times on cam we have had a “sleep-over”. Where we both sleep in front of the cam. Just hearing his breathing during the night and watching him sleep really is a special thing for me and him. We have learned to cope with our situation and even spice it up. You have to have faith that it will work, if you really love him and he loves you, and it was meant to be, it will work. If God brings you to it, He will bring you through it.

Here is a site I found a long time ago, specifically made for ldr couples. There are games, advice, blogs, gifts and so much more for people in our situation. Just keep your head up and stay strong for you and him. My bf and I have both learned that crying over it doesn’t change or help anything. So you just have to talk a lot to eachother about how you feel and everything. Good luck! Yah for ldr!! If you have any more questions feel free to inbox me J

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My friend wants to use a oujie board at a party we are planning. What are some things I should know about oujie boards and what are your beliefs on oujie boards. Also what are some legends on them and how would you use one? Thank you!!! (link)
Never EVER EVER use one of those!! EVER! I dont care if your friends beg you to use one, never ever play it! For one, ya they are fun when your with your friends, but it actually attracts demons and spirits. One of my boyfriends friends used one and he has a demon in his house now. The demon does scary things to him and makes him scared out of his mind. Not to menion if you have ever watched ghost shows. Mostly every house that has either has demon or a spirit in it is because someone in the house used one of those boards. Some spirits are nice and others are not. I would suggest you dont try to play it at all. SOmetimes the board doesnt always work, and nothing happens. But then later things happen, because you attracted a spirit or a demon. PLease dont use one, for your own sake and your friends sake.

Hope i helped.
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i am in a long distance relationship and i wanted to know how can i spice up our talks. we know so much about eachother and talk about the same stuff it seem like. what are some things i can say or ask him to start or keep a conversation going. please help me (link)
Hey, im also in a long distance relationship, have been for going on 16 months. Well, we like to play 100 questions alot. Go on google and type in 100 questions and ask away. You can play truth or dare, that is really fun. Talk about the future, what you want to do together, experiences or places you want to go to together. Talk about your day, how you miss eachother, what events are coming up, friends, family, any drama. Look up utube vids together and send them to eachother, that can be really fun. Write a list together about everything you have in common. Watch a movie together on skype. Go on google and look up conversation starters for long distance relationships. This site is amazing! it is for ldr couples and i have done quite alot of things from here with my guy, its helps alot. Try it out!

Hope i helped. If you have any questions about long distance relationships, please feel free to ask me. I know what you are going through.Good luck on your long distance relationship :)

~V

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I know this really sweet guy, but he lives in Illinois. He is very smart, patient, and cute, and I think I'm starting to like him. I live in Florida, though, and right now I really can't travel.

I really think I'm beginning to like him though, and he said he likes me too. He told me he has had a long distance relationship before with a girl that lived in San Diego, and she moved in with him and he found out after a year of dating her she was cheating on him the whole time. He seems like a very sensitive, emotional guy, and I want to try to make a long distance relationship work, but I know it will be difficult for both of us. Any advice? (link)
Hey!well im in a long distance relationship with a guy from Illinois. He is amazing, sweet, repectful and so good to me. We met on a site called omegle and have been talking ever since. I am however from canada, 9 hours away from him. I can tell you right now, long distance relationships can work...if you make them work. I have been in this relationship for 15 months! and...we havent met in person yet, planning on it in the summer. Not being able to see him is the hardest thing i have ever had to go through. None will really understand what you are going through unless they are in a long distance relaitonship. and when i mean LDR, i mean you dont see them for months at a time. Long distance relationships are very hard, you need to both be willing to put forth the effort that it requires.

You guys just have to be very honest with eachother, and talk about absoluetly everything. the fact that hey has been cheated on for that long is going to make it harder for him to trust people. so youll have to reasure him that you will never cheat on him. Just talk about everything. My personal opinoion, i think that you should try this LDR. Its not gonna hurt anything if you try. I am living proof that it can work. 15 months is a very long time and we talk everyday. Be honest about everything, decide if you both are willing to go through this together, rules ect.

I think you should go for it! you never know wat is gonna happen, you could end up marrying him someday. If nothing happens and you guys realize you guys cant do this, well then you learned something about yourself, that LDR are not for you lol. Good luck! He sounds like a very nice guy, and knowing that he has been in a LDR shows how committed he is when he is in a relationship. so that is a bonus for you! Good luck! if you have anymore questions, feel free to contact me. Id love to help ya out :)

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is my 3 inch penis normal p.s. im 14 male (link)
sorry to burst your bubble, but its not. AN average size penis is 6inches. But a girl will love you for you, not wat your packing.


i have a tongue piercing and i want to give my boyfriend a blowjob, will the toungue ring hurt him? i have the normal siver balls
thanks a lot guys (link)
haha. actually most girls get their tounges pierced because it feels good to the guy during oral sex. This will not hurt him at all. It will actually make the sensations more intense, resulting in a better blowjob. Trust me, this will not hurt him, he will enjoy it. Hope this helped. if you have anymore questions, feel free to hit me up :)


Okay, I'm sorry if this is long, or complicated I just need some advice. So I guess I'll start from the beginning then:
So it started in fall of 2009. I met this incredible guy on facebook... ( family friend knew him, not a complete stranger or anything) We didn't talk or anything, maybe comment on each others status's occasionally and then birthday's. Then I had some health problems and he was really nice during it. So a while passed and summer began. Around June we started talking a LOT .. like all the time just about anything. Then in the end of June we started dating. Again talked ALL the time about absolutly everything, our future, each other. It was amazing. We visited each other and everything.
Well apparently his mom found some of our IMs that she didn't approve of and I will admit we did mess up and talked a little to much about somethings we shouldn't. She doesn't like me, thinks I listen to bad music and that I'm a bad influence on him.
Now we get a limited time to talk, like it even matters because she reads everything!!! I feel like I'm talking to her. I can't talk about my music, or school, or heck no on our future. Idk what to do. Its so frustrating. I Love him but I just don't know if I can do this much longer... what would you do, or what do you suggest for me to do.. please I am so confused (link)
Well first of all i must say you are not alone at all. I totally understand what you are going through cause i am as well. Well...his sister has actually red some of our ims...that were kinda dirty. hes sister dislikes me at all, just because of the fact of someone likin her brother. Her and him do not get along at all and shes tried to tell me things about him to get ride of me. but im not going anywhere. his mother on the other hand...differnt story. I actually think that his whole family hates the idea of us talking. because we are on the computer so much for eachother talking on skype. his mom i think highly dislikes the face that hes on the computer so much with me and he doesnt get chores or other things she wants done. Iv actually heard arguments of him and his mom about me on skype..and i can tell you its not a good feeling. In your situation i understand because you have no privacy. Privacy in a realtionship is essiential. Youll just have to watch what you say i guess. Maybe text eachother more if you have phones then delete your messages so she cant read them. But since you guys do see and visit eachother it should be fine, becausee then you can talk to eachother about everything you wanted to before but couldnt.

I use to have no pravicy with my man because he shared his computer with his sis. and she would always be on giving us no pravicy nore time to talk to eachother. But months later she got a lap top and its been great. When you say she reads everything, im assuming shes reading after you guys are done or over his shoulder? so in that case you might have to be a bit sneeky. When my man and i are talking about something intimate or what not, then one of us has to leave we move the coversation up, such as on like msn and keep pressing "r" to move it up or something like that so noone reads it. You can also delete your history on msn, and skype. fb chat you can delete also if you "x" out of the coversation and press on his name again.

We also have limited time to talk but youll just have to accept it and do the best you can. Trust me it will get better. His mom highly dislikes me as well. so you are not alone. being in a long distance relationship is very fustrating and it is the hardest thing i have ever done in my entire life. If you love him, and i mean truly love him, you will do anything and everything to be with him. I know it is so hard and you feel like you cant go on any longer, but you have to decide for yourself if he is truly worth all your time and efforts. If he is the one you want to spend the rest of your days with, if you would do anything for him. If these are a definant no, then i would suggest to end the relationship now, better then later.

You will have to earn his moms trust by talking to him and being careful of what you say. You will have to also respect her and her wishes of the time limit and what not. I know this is all very fustrating. But it will get better trust me.

If i was in your situation, i would just deal with it. I would just accept the terms and work with what i have, better talking with him for an hour rather then not at all. Just talk to him about everything like you do, about all your feelings on the situation and maybe get him to talk to his mom and suggest she back off a bit and give you guys pravicy because you deserve it. Let him know all your concerns of the situation and then he can tell his mom and hopefully she will grant you some pravicy. Hang in there. Times get so tuff, but you just have to work through them together, it will make your realtionship stronger. TRUST ME. All i can suggest to you is, to talk to him a bout it, and get him to talk to his mom to help out the situation. if say she still doesnt, just work with what you have and hang on to those questions, topics you want to talk to him about until you visit eachother. Be alittle sneeky lol

Hope i helped out with some concerns you had. Hang in there. Your def not alone. Just think about the reasons why you are in this relationship with him to help you. Write it down in a diary to get your fustrations out (i do this so that i dont over flow him with concerns and worries about me). Good LUCK!! hope i helped. If you have any more questions hit me up.



Okay, I need some advice about my situation. I want to send it to someone so its private, is there anyone who has experience in a long distant relationship?
Thanks (link)
im in a long distance realtionship right now. Im from canada and he is from usa. and its been going on for alomost a year now in feb. So if you have any questions, id love to help ya out. btw im 17 years old.


7 months now I have had a really strong long distance relationship. I'm so confused on what to do. We are only in high school and everyone thinks its too young to "Love Someone" but I think they're wrong. However what if we do break up in the future its gonna crush me. Should I just go ahead and do it even though we both love each other. Why does everything have to be so hard... why does love have to be so hard (link)
I can totally relate to you! Im female 17 in my senior year in highschool. I have a long distance realtionship going on...and its gonna be a year in feb. I understand how hard it is, for me it is the hardest thing i have ever don in my life. Im from canada and my bf is from USa, he lives 9 hours from me. My family is against it but accpet. My friends are for it but some doubt that well get to see eachother. Hes 17 btw and in senior year of highschool. Well we have been planning to meet in the summer of this year...but things arnt looking up. so know we are deciding if we are still going to do this because we might not be able to meet for another year until he gets enough money and gets a car and such. It breaks our hearts. But just like you, we are in so much in love. We have decided to keep things going and just see where it takes us. I love him so much and people say i dont know what love is because its over the internet. but thats my decision, not thiers, its also my life and not thiers. you have to decide for yourself if you truly love him and what is best for you. I have thought about breaking up with him or for somereason we just break up...and i realised just the thought of that made me cry and i felt so depressed. I agree it will crush you. But...dont do somehing your gonna regret and then wish you had. My bf is perfect and if we cant even hold eachother for 2 years, im willing to do it cause i love him so much and he is the one for me. I suggest you talk to your bf, really talk about the whole situation, see if your on the same page. Really talk about the future and how its going to effect you both. You have to remember that your not alone, he is also going through the same feelings as you.

Just talk to him about everything. I talk to my man everyday on skype and have been for 11 months. use cams! they work really well.

Its so hard...but its so worth it. KNowing that after everything is said and done, your with the one you truly love and are happy with. If you truly love him, youll do anything and everything to be with him, as him with you. Good luck! I wish you so much happiness in the future in your realtionship, because i know how hard it is to keep going, and feel like giving up. Wish you the best!! Hope this help, if you have anymore questions id be glad to help you out!

V


Is it possible to be in love with a guy who lives in a different state and who I only met once and only hung out with once for a short period of time? I'm 16 and I am a young lady. (link)
My opinion you can be in love with a guy who is frm another state, and only met once. I for one would understand...im 17 and i have been talkin to the love of my life for 11 months, almost a year know. I love him to death. If from canada and he is from the usa. We havent met...but are planning on meetin in the summer. We love eachother so much. I dont think it matters your age, you decide for yourself your feelings you have for other people and what they mean to you. People have told me its not love. but it isnt their chose or opinion that matters to me because i know for a fact i am in love. If you really love him, your do anything for him and anything just to be with him.

Being 16...you can still be in love. I do cam with my bf everyday and talk to him about everything and anything. I am in love with a guy frm another country lol its is possible you love your guy frm another state. Its your life, not anyone elses, dont let other people decide if your in love or not, you have to find that out for yourself. Best of luck to you. If you have any more questions id be glad to help ya out :)


This long distance relationship is killing me. I have found the person I love more than anything and he lives about 10 hours away. I'm 17 and I still have to finish out high school but sometimes I just feel so depressed and lonely here. What should I do? (link)
im in the same situation as you. im 17 so is he. He lives in usa and i live in canada. we live about 9 hours away frm eachother. our long distance realtionship has been going on for 11 months now, almost a year.

I love him to death and he loves me. we are so so much in love it hurts being away from eachother as it must be for you. Im just the same way...some days like today i cried cause i want to see him so bad and i feel lonely. but you just have to stay strong and talk about everything with him. your fears, concerns..anything. it will bring you closer. we talk everyday on skype for hours and that helps us alot. we talk about everything and everything and do alot of things on cam actually. You just have to be creative with it. we do eskimo kisses and little things like that, just things that we would do in person.

I think you should continue this relationship. If you love him, like really love him and would do anything for him to be in your life, keep it going. i know it is hard. its the hardest thing i have ever done in my life. But it will b so much worth it when you guys are able to be in eahothers arms.

We have planned for like 11 months now for him to come up here and see me in the summer. 11 months strong and 6 months left to go. Good luck. I say stay with him cause i know how much i am in love and im not giving up on him. I want to marry him and im saying this as being 17, cause thats wat "I" want. dont let anyone tear you guys apart or change your mind. If it was ment to happen it will happen. talk to him as much as possible. send gifts to eachother, letters, play games on the computer, watch a movie together on skype...its endless. good luck to the both of you. Hope this helped. if you want any more advice just ask me id love to help you out cause i know exsacly how you feel.

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I don't understand why like every time I take my underwear off there always so wet from my vagina it's not piss it that white stuff and my vaginas ALWAYS wet and I don't get why!? (link)
its not a yeast infection!! dont beleive wat the other person said. NOt a yeast infection at all! all girls/women have its, it is perfectly normal. it is vaginal discharge, this is a lubricent for your part lol and this fluid cleans the vagina and keeps it moist to help fight infections. The color, amount, and the way it feels will vary during the menstrual cycle. The fluids should be clear, white, or off-white which yours is so your all good, if that changes then you may have a yeast infection. Just wear pantie liners and change them every day so it doesnt get on your underwear. THIS IS PERFECTLY NORMAL AND IS NOT A YEAST INFECITON. your all good lol hope this hepled.

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Okay so I've had a crush on my friend Brian for the longest time. We hang out sometimes during the week with our friends & we've hooked up a couple times. My problem is that when we're at the same party I get so awkward. It's almost if I can flirt with the other boys fine, but not Brian, I steer clear away from him. I'm almost afraid to go up to him because i feel like he'll think i'm being clingy or something. I don't know, but it's so awkward and I really want to be able to go up to him and flirt with him like I do with the other guys. What do I do!? (link)
Well in my opinion, i think its because of your nerves. Its great that you two hang out and that you have hooked up a couple of times, so you must be confortable with eachother on some level. I think the reason you can flirt with other guys and not Brain is because you dont want to mess it up, cause you really like him. And i can see where you would think your being clingy if you go up to him. But really all i can say is fight your fears and go up to him. You guys hang you said during the week so its not like its going to be really awkward. hell keep the coversation going as well, so dont feel you have to all the time. If he doesnt help the covo going, it might because hes not interested, or he just doesnt say much. Depends what you know about him. Take a chance, go up to him and pretend he is just like every other guy you have flirted with. If you really like him i say go for it! I was in the same situation and i was too nervous to go up to him, and just kept thinking what he would think about me and if maybe he didnt really want to talk to me and was just being nice. Well ill never actually know if he liked me cause i never did that. But you two have hooked up, so he must have an interest in you. do you know what kind of guy he is? if maybe hes a player? not a relationship kinda guy? It sounds to me that you have no problem flirting! so just go up to him and work your stuff! Be confident! You wont know what he thinks of you until you strke a conversation and see where it leads lol. Good luck! hope all goes well. BE YOURSELF! if he starts flirting bk, you know hes interested, and you have nothing to worrry about! Theres nothing wrong with going up and talkin to him as a FRIEND...he might not think of you guys more then that anyway. You just have to go talk to him and find out foryourself! GOOD LUCK

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im wearing this for halloween and im kind of second guessing it. let me know what you think (link)
I like it! its hot, sexy and simple!


My mom is dying to be my friend on facebook and wants to "check what im doing". I have nothing to hide from her, I just dont want to be her friend on facebook. I deserve the right to have my privacy. what should i do/tell her? She complains I always clog up her newsfeed, so I dont know why she wants to be my friend. (link)
well tell her that she can make it so she dosnet see your news feed, your able to do that. And if your putting up a status you can make it so certian people are blocked from seeing it. i do that with my extended family so they dont see all the i love you to my boyfriend lol U can make it so that she doesnt see certain things. and just let her know that, if she doesnt want to see it she can delete you or hide your stuff, or just deal with it.


13/m Sometimes my mom touches me down there on my thing. She has for years now and never says anything about it. We were talking in sex ed and I realize this is like sexual abuse and is bad. Who do I contact about this so she stops? Just like local police or what? I don't want to ask in class. It's embarrassing. Is there like sex abuse hotline or 1-800 number I call? (link)
Yes you are correct this is wrong. Dont not call a hotline or anything. You must tell your mom to stop. Tell her you dont like it and you know its wrong. If she continues to touch you and doesnt stop, you have to tell an adult. An adult you trust, this could be an aunt, uncle, older cousin, grandpa, grandma. Tell them the situation and how you told your mom to stop and how she is still touching you. They will know what to further do for you and your protection. The reason you should tell your mom to stop and talk to her about it FIRST, is because if she does stop then your issue is solved instead of callin it a serious issue right away and calling someone. But if she still touches you after you had asked her not to, it becomes more serious and you should tell someone about it, someone you trust not a stranger. It will be hard but you have to understand this is not right which you do.

Hope this helps! Good luck!


Well I'm in a Co-op placement at the hospital you're supposed to report weekly to your teacher of any concerns you have. Even though it is asked of all emplyers and even principles in school, students/employees still don't.

So, everything is going great. EXCEPT that the manger of my department is a bitch and either treats me like shit or pretend that I do not exist! Which is ridiculous to me since she's the one who interviewed me and let my teacher know that I got the placement.

So everyone's nice and all, it's just HER. And I guess she's not exactly part of my placement since she's the manager of the department. But she still pops in for an hour every day and when she comes in, she'll say hi to everyone except for me and I'll even try to say hi first and she doesn't even say anything back! And she has a sweet voice so when she's talking to me, to others she may seem nice, but if you were actually listening to hat she was really saying, it's not nice.

I was informed of a mock fire dril the other day and (this may sound funny but) somehow, none of the nurses /clerks knew of how it runs so she called everyone to come in a circle. But she liek purposely left me out so it was akward, her talking to everyone while I was standing in the corner. After they were done and she said bye to everyone but me, I took the initiative to find the emergency proceedure book and read the whole process of it myself.

So should I report to my teacher of this or no? I mean, for future students doing their placements there, it could be bad. It's kind of like a handicap, really. But, maybe it'll make things worse? My friend is doing a placement here too, but in a different department. Same manager. She told me that it is a concern so if I'm really bothered by it, I should go for it. But I know that if she was in my situation, she wouldn't (well, she is in the same situation, but she's way more tougher than I am so she's alright). (link)
I know EXSACLTY WAT YOUR GOING THROUGH!! i did a co-op placement at a vet clinc, and well everyone there were totally nice and the sweetiest..except for the one vet. she treated me like i was invisable, shes yell at me, shes treat me like im not worth talkin to and would talk to all the other people and purposely leave me out. Shed be talking to some vet techs and me but would never look at me or initalize that i was there. she would also never call me by my name and would just call me the co-op student and shed talk about me right infront of everyone and be like the co-op student can do that. LIKE IM RIGHT THERE ASK ME TO DO IT INSTEAD OF SUGGESTING IT PRETENDING IM NOT THERE LOL I dreaded the days she would be there, cause i felt like sh**. ya so anyway, well i did let my co-op teacher know about the whole situation. he understood and took that into consideration whily gradin me and such. the vet text who happened to b my supervisor also let me know that the vet doesnt really like the co-op students so dont take it personal.

In your case she is your manager...so you cant really tell her how you fell. Mind you, you could, be that might turn out madly. I strongly suggest that you tell your teacher about her. Your teacher will understand and might even try to help you out and talk to the manager just saying that you feel unconforable and left out ect. For future co-op students it would also b best beacuse your teacher can let them know that the manager isnt the greatest.

Dont feel bad about reporting her. Just please let your teacher know, youll have to deal with this for a while yet till you placement is done so better tell the teacher and see if he can make any changes. If he/she cant, at least you let them know your concerns and they will take that into consideration.

HOpe this helped you! If you need anymore advice feel free to ask id b happy to help ya! Good LUCK!

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there is a guy in my school and when ever we talk he looks deep in my eyes and sometime at my lips what does it means

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well this is very good news!! he likes you alot. If i guy looks deep into your eyes, he really likes you. now...if a guy looks at your lips, that means he wants to kiss you. if you ever notice him lookin at your lips and then he licks his own lips..THAT DEF MEANS HE WANTS TO KISS YOU! if you really lke him, and you notice him lookin at your lips again, lean in and see if he kisses you.

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