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Last Update: July 31, 2010
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Ok. So i just turned 13 this june and i am overweight but i am just a 36A . and i really want BOOBS!Bacause i am entering 8th grade and next year entering High school ! but i am wondering when i loose wieight will i grow boobs ? and also i have already had my period. and i am just about 5'5 HELP ! any advice ? (: (link)
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whats wrong with not having boobs i mean if you have a boyfriend in the future then you will get to see that he loves you for your insides & not for your watermelons :-p
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when i was 15, i had the babybug. it was almost aching, i wanted to have a baby so bad. it lasted for about 4 months and then disappeared for a while. now i'm 17 and its back, but its much worse. i have a boyfriend and we're active. we use protection sometimes, but most of the time we don't. everytime we dont, i have this instant spark of hope that maybe this might be the time that i finally get pregnant. i know, i'm young. i'm almost in my senior year of highschool and i know it'd completely ruin my life if i had a kid now, but i don't care at all. i'd be a great mother. i'm at the point right now where i don't even want to live anymore unless i have something to live for, and in this case, that something would be a baby. i keep having urges to trick my boyfriend into thinking i'm on the pill, but i love him too much to do that to him. he doesnt want a kid.
why am i like this? any why so young? my friends are all scared for me, my boyfriend, too. i'm starting to worry a little, myself. (link)
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im tired of reading answers where they call you crazy or say that your not ready or give you the most hurtful advice. i know it hurts being called crazy and being treated like your stupid for wanting a baby, im 15 and i had this same problem i thought me and my boyfriend were in love & we were actually going to go for it, trust me after my mom had her last baby & i had to give up 80% of my childhood to help my mom take care of my baby sister ( witch i still do )i noticed that i was not ready at all. . maybe you might feel a different way but think about it you are dealing with school and if you have a baby you and your boyfriend will have to get a job, what if you have no support from your family ? what if everyone looks at you different & your all alone? you have to think aabout everything that can haappen : positive & negative things. live your life now, party, have fun, what if you and your boyfriend dont last forever ? what will happen then, yuour family would be broke, would you want that ? think about it just be a kid for now spend all your time foolishly, and if your boyfriend loves you dont get pregnant on purpose, if he does not want a child maybe its a sign that both of you are not ready. remember im not here to judge you or laugh at you im here to give you advice
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I know this older guy and he's hit on me before but he also treats me like as if i'm his little sister or something. At first I thought he was a gentleman (he would walk me back to my place even if it was far away just because he wanted to make sure I was safe) but then it started to get kinda crazy. I live downtown in a big city, and now he wants me not to go out unless I'm with somebody. I understand his worry, but it was noon in bright daylight on one of the busiest streets in the city. He also lectures me if i lie to my parents or anything like that and i kinda get the feeling that he thinks it would be better if i just stayed home and never go out because when I do stay home he tells me that he thinks it's good for me not to go out. He says that he thinks I shouldn't go out unless I'm with a group of friends cuz there will probably be more guys like him (much older) hitting on me other than him, and i understand where he's coming from on that one, and I'm flattered that he cares about my safety but I wish he would relax just a little bit. I don't even know him that well yet even. I do know that he's attracted to me but when we hung out when he was talking it was like a half lecture/half flirt. He was talking about how i should dress younger (i don't dress revealing.. i know when some people say "she dresses older" they immediately think low cut tops) and at the same time will tell me how sexy/pretty he thinks i am and look. Oh and even though he doesn't like me going out, he still does ask me to meet up with him. Anyways how do I get him to realize that for the most part I can take care of myself? He actually worries about me more than my parents do. He chases after me when I wanna do something by without him I kinda have a small crush on him even though that's probably really wrong and I want to continue our friendship (he doesn't know) but today I got a bit mad at him for treating me like I'm 10. W are both 16 and Im not immature either. I think i'm more mature than the kids in my school they don't take education serious, I don't goof off, I make good grades and Im in the top 10 % of my class. I tell him to stop treating me like a baby and he doesnt listen.How do I get him to stop treating me like a kid?
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well maybe he really cares or maybe hes just showing you he likes you in a wierd way. . he might evenn be a bit strange, but give it time. . talk to him and let him know how you feel, stay with his friendship until you think its time to take him to the next level or even cut him off. but just remember. . be patient & talk to him. there's nothing better than communication in relationships AND friendships.
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