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awkard at parties
Okay so I've had a crush on my friend Brian for the longest time. We hang out sometimes during the week with our friends & we've hooked up a couple times. My problem is that when we're at the same party I get so awkward. It's almost if I can flirt with the other boys fine, but not Brian, I steer clear away from him. I'm almost afraid to go up to him because i feel like he'll think i'm being clingy or something. I don't know, but it's so awkward and I really want to be able to go up to him and flirt with him like I do with the other guys. What do I do!?
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iiii thinkkk that when you both are at a partyyy
go up to himm and be like
"HEY BRII :)!" and give eachother a hug nd jsut start talking.
*****BUT DONT ACT DRUNK******* guys think that is very annoying and he wont try to talk to you ... he will then try to take advantage of you and u dont watnt that.
just be your self and the next partyyy it should be his turn to talk to you and if he doesnt then fuck him! :D
okayyy. hope i helped!
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Well in my opinion, i think its because of your nerves. Its great that you two hang out and that you have hooked up a couple of times, so you must be confortable with eachother on some level. I think the reason you can flirt with other guys and not Brain is because you dont want to mess it up, cause you really like him. And i can see where you would think your being clingy if you go up to him. But really all i can say is fight your fears and go up to him. You guys hang you said during the week so its not like its going to be really awkward. hell keep the coversation going as well, so dont feel you have to all the time. If he doesnt help the covo going, it might because hes not interested, or he just doesnt say much. Depends what you know about him. Take a chance, go up to him and pretend he is just like every other guy you have flirted with. If you really like him i say go for it! I was in the same situation and i was too nervous to go up to him, and just kept thinking what he would think about me and if maybe he didnt really want to talk to me and was just being nice. Well ill never actually know if he liked me cause i never did that. But you two have hooked up, so he must have an interest in you. do you know what kind of guy he is? if maybe hes a player? not a relationship kinda guy? It sounds to me that you have no problem flirting! so just go up to him and work your stuff! Be confident! You wont know what he thinks of you until you strke a conversation and see where it leads lol. Good luck! hope all goes well. BE YOURSELF! if he starts flirting bk, you know hes interested, and you have nothing to worrry about! Theres nothing wrong with going up and talkin to him as a FRIEND...he might not think of you guys more then that anyway. You just have to go talk to him and find out foryourself! GOOD LUCK
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